Embracing Yourself in a Youth Oriented Culture

by | Feb 15, 2025

As we age, embracing our natural beauty becomes an act of faith and self-love. In a society that idolizes youth,
embracing physical changes can be challenging. Let’s face it, the wrinkles are deepening, the skin is sagging,
and the waist is expanding. For many of us the kids are grown, we are retired and in our golden years; Curses!!!
We’ve finally figured out who the heck we are, and now our bodies are falling apart! 😳 Yet, 2 Corinthians 4:16
encourages us,
“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are
being renewed day by day.
” Our true beauty is found within, so what do we do to bring that inner beauty out?
We do not lose heart nor will we go gentle into that good night -as Dylan Thomas said.
In a world inundated with “anti-aging” labels and products, we, the new breed of baby boomers stand as the
pioneers of a new era, rewriting the narrative with power and grace. We embrace the beauty of growing older,
not as something to be feared or fought against, but as a journey to be celebrated. This is more than a shift in
language—it’s a movement. We’re redefining aging as a positive, pro-aging experience because every wrinkle
and silver strand tells the story of resilience, wisdom, and the simple yet profound blessing of still being here. It’s
time we honor that and live boldly in the skin we’re in. Aging gracefully means acknowledging the changes in our bodies and finding beauty in them. Each wrinkle and gray hair are a testament to a life well-lived, full of
experiences and wisdom.
When I finally chose to embrace my gray hair, something profound happened- I embraced all of myself. In that
moment of acceptance, I shed the burdens of societal expectations and stood firmly in the truth of who I am.
What followed was nothing short of transformative. The world, which had once seemed to mirror my
insecurities,and fear of looking old, began to reflect back a newfound confidence and radiance. It’s as if by
owning every part of my journey, the universe responded in kind, acknowledging my strength, my wisdom, and
my unwavering self-assurance. This wasn’t just about hair; it was about reclaiming my power, and in doing so, I
invited the world to see me as I truly am—bold, beautiful, and unapologetically me.
Here are some things we can do to age gracefully:
Let your wardrobe reflect your vibrant spirit. Choose clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable,
honoring the body God has given you.
Embrace changes with grace and dignity. Start by celebrating your gray hair, deciding to ditch the dye, or even
try a bold new haircut. Each strand tells a story of wisdom and experience.
Self-care is crucial. Develop a skincare routine that nourishes your skin and soul. Use nourishing products that
enhance your natural beauty and take time for relaxation and reflection. Hydration, both inside and out, is
crucial. Drink plenty of water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type. Protect your skin from excessive sun
exposure and treat it with the kindness it deserves. Embrace a healthy lifestyle with balanced nutrition and regular exercise. Listen to your body and respect its
needs. Holistic practices like yoga and meditation can bring peace and rejuvenation, aligning your physical and
spiritual well-being.
Enhance your appearance by taking care of your skin and hair with natural, nourishing products. Hydration, both
inside and out, is crucial. Drink plenty of water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type. Protect your skin
from excessive sun exposure and treat it with the kindness it deserves.
Most importantly, love yourself fiercely. Jesus said in Matthew 22:39,
“Love your neighbor as yourself.
” Self-love
is not selfish; it’s a foundation for loving others. Celebrate your journey, and let your inner beauty radiate
outward.
Newsflash!!📣 This is not just for women! Celebrate your age and the beauty that comes with it. Let your light
shine brightly, reflecting the love and grace of God in every aspect of your being.
Psalm 139:14 reminds us,
“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
” Accepting ourselves is a testament to God’s perfect creation.

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I blame my mom for this love affair — I grew up waking up to the smell of her morning coffee, and now it’s basically in my DNA. 

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I had this vintage @dianevonfurstenberg wrap dress in my closet for about 2 decades and decided to pull it out and throw it on today. Love the knit denim look.
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Did you rock the DVF wrap dresses back in the day???

God is good.
All.The.Time.

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Six year old me, and me now.

Things I would tell my six year old self…

•You only need validation from yourself and God.

•Your thoughts are not always true (we sometimes adopt things as truth when they’re not)

•Trust your instincts, they’re rarely wrong-that goes for lovers, friends, and decisions.

Always put God first in your choices.

Be content in your current state while pursuing your dreams. Comparison is truly the thief of joy.

You are the only YOU there is. People can copy, but they’ll never be you, and you’ll never be them.

Pass this on to someone who needs to hear this-young and old.
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We met in 2017. 
Married in 2022.
Both had previous failed marriages. 
Don’t give up.
Love is possible at any age.

#thisis68
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#babyboomers
We met in 2017 and dated long distance for some years. We got married on this day in 2022.
Love is possible no matter your age. Just be open, broaden your horizons, and don’t give up. A lot of women get exasperated with the online scene, and give up. I get it. It’s work.
But there are as many great love stories as there are horror stories. Such is life. Don’t give up ! We’re here to inspire you!!

Happy Third Anniversary, Love!! I love doing life with you and thankful that God is the center of our lives!💕

We’re 68 and Still Fly✈️ 
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Summer Breeze and grandkids makes me feel fine…
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