Embracing Yourself in a Youth Oriented Culture

by | Feb 15, 2025

As we age, embracing our natural beauty becomes an act of faith and self-love. In a society that idolizes youth,
embracing physical changes can be challenging. Let’s face it, the wrinkles are deepening, the skin is sagging,
and the waist is expanding. For many of us the kids are grown, we are retired and in our golden years; Curses!!!
We’ve finally figured out who the heck we are, and now our bodies are falling apart! 😳 Yet, 2 Corinthians 4:16
encourages us,
“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are
being renewed day by day.
” Our true beauty is found within, so what do we do to bring that inner beauty out?
We do not lose heart nor will we go gentle into that good night -as Dylan Thomas said.
In a world inundated with “anti-aging” labels and products, we, the new breed of baby boomers stand as the
pioneers of a new era, rewriting the narrative with power and grace. We embrace the beauty of growing older,
not as something to be feared or fought against, but as a journey to be celebrated. This is more than a shift in
language—it’s a movement. We’re redefining aging as a positive, pro-aging experience because every wrinkle
and silver strand tells the story of resilience, wisdom, and the simple yet profound blessing of still being here. It’s
time we honor that and live boldly in the skin we’re in. Aging gracefully means acknowledging the changes in our bodies and finding beauty in them. Each wrinkle and gray hair are a testament to a life well-lived, full of
experiences and wisdom.
When I finally chose to embrace my gray hair, something profound happened- I embraced all of myself. In that
moment of acceptance, I shed the burdens of societal expectations and stood firmly in the truth of who I am.
What followed was nothing short of transformative. The world, which had once seemed to mirror my
insecurities,and fear of looking old, began to reflect back a newfound confidence and radiance. It’s as if by
owning every part of my journey, the universe responded in kind, acknowledging my strength, my wisdom, and
my unwavering self-assurance. This wasn’t just about hair; it was about reclaiming my power, and in doing so, I
invited the world to see me as I truly am—bold, beautiful, and unapologetically me.
Here are some things we can do to age gracefully:
Let your wardrobe reflect your vibrant spirit. Choose clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable,
honoring the body God has given you.
Embrace changes with grace and dignity. Start by celebrating your gray hair, deciding to ditch the dye, or even
try a bold new haircut. Each strand tells a story of wisdom and experience.
Self-care is crucial. Develop a skincare routine that nourishes your skin and soul. Use nourishing products that
enhance your natural beauty and take time for relaxation and reflection. Hydration, both inside and out, is
crucial. Drink plenty of water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type. Protect your skin from excessive sun
exposure and treat it with the kindness it deserves. Embrace a healthy lifestyle with balanced nutrition and regular exercise. Listen to your body and respect its
needs. Holistic practices like yoga and meditation can bring peace and rejuvenation, aligning your physical and
spiritual well-being.
Enhance your appearance by taking care of your skin and hair with natural, nourishing products. Hydration, both
inside and out, is crucial. Drink plenty of water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type. Protect your skin
from excessive sun exposure and treat it with the kindness it deserves.
Most importantly, love yourself fiercely. Jesus said in Matthew 22:39,
“Love your neighbor as yourself.
” Self-love
is not selfish; it’s a foundation for loving others. Celebrate your journey, and let your inner beauty radiate
outward.
Newsflash!!📣 This is not just for women! Celebrate your age and the beauty that comes with it. Let your light
shine brightly, reflecting the love and grace of God in every aspect of your being.
Psalm 139:14 reminds us,
“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
” Accepting ourselves is a testament to God’s perfect creation.

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“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.” —Proverbs 31:30

#sundayservice#grayhairdontcare#faith#proverbs31woman
Then and now.
Y’all know the 70’s was my decade, and I think I took more photos in the 1970s than any other decade. Each decade represents another phase of life. This was one of self-growth and exploration, not to mention the 70s disco vibe and unforgettable style.
I look back and smile, feeling grateful for Then and Now🙏🏽❤️
Thanks for stopping by.

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#thisis67#tbt#1970sstyle #glam#grayhairdontcare #thenandnow#vintage#olderandwiser #discoera #fyp#explore#brooklyngirl
Grateful for all things. That’s all.🙏🏽
What have you been complaining about lately and have you been focusing on what you don’t have rather than being grateful for what you do have? When you look at the rest of the world, we are truly blessed. I’m so glad God saw fit that the path of my life has led me here. I hope to inspire someone today.
It’s easy to get caught up in the fallacy of perfection. Just look here on social media and everyone’s life looks fabulous every single day, but trust me- it’s not, no one is perfect except God.
Just a random post. Have a blessed day y’all!
#wednesdayvibes #humpday#carvideos #grayhairfontcare#blessed

Do you take things and your life for granted?
Are you grateful for the things you have?
Who says getting older has to be boring? I visited Tony Yanito’s Gripstone Climbing Gym recently. He’s a legendary professional rock climber, and at over 60 he’s going strong keeping Prescott,AZ fit with his gym. On this day, there were some climbers in their late 60s and 70s showing their skills and I was impressed!
Gonna put on my climbing gear and do it one day. Tony said I can start with the kids wall!!😲😂 That’s about right!!🧗🏽‍♂️
If you’re in the area, check this place out!!!

#rockclimbing #arizona#prescottaz #fitnessover60
Psyche!! No, it’s not me…

Just a little levity and laughs visiting with my beautiful niece Rasheeda. 

Some folks pay beaucoup bucks for this, and don’t look half as good!!!
Go on with your baddie self Rasheeda!

Like, Share, and Follow her y’all  @rasheedatv 

#babygotback#fyp #therealdeal #nobbl #nycgirl#floridagirl #instadaily #naturalbeauty
It was a bittersweet trip to Florida visiting my big brother Tony, who is bedridden from 
a stroke, and my sister-in-law who is showing signs of dementia, all under the care of my wonderful niece, Rasheeda @rasheeda.io  I got to experience firsthand her life as a caregiver, and I was glad to be 
there as their new home was blessed at the housewarming. In all that she is juggling, she found the time to invite us to a Yankees’s Spring Training Event in Tampa. She is a Fordham U alum, so we got to steal away for a few hours to enjoy the event with her.
I was mostly in the moment, and didn’t get to create much content. Sometimes it’s that way. No regrets.

My niece is so amazing and beautiful. They are so blessed to have her care for them. May the Lord bless her GREATLY for honoring them in this way. We should all be so lucky! 

Deuteronomy 5:16  Says
“‘Honor your father and your mother, as the Lord your God commanded you, that your days may be long, and that it may go well with you in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.”

May it always go well with her, dear Lord🙏🏽
#familyiseverything#mifamilia #floridalife#tampa#caregiverlife
Hello, my name is…
Adelina a/k/a Fly Granny Bk
I thought I’d reintroduce myself because it’s been a while and I have some new followers.
I’m a baby boomer, child of the 60’s and the 70’s and I love the 80s.
I’m Bi-racial, Black and Filipina-Blasian, or Afro-Asian, way before Tiger Woods made it famous.
I’m an eternal Brooklynite now living in Arizona.
I reinvented myself after decades as a designer in NY, and embraced social media in 2019. I have 2 amazing sons, a 
daughter-in-love, and two amazing grandchildren. 
I found love again and remarried in 2022 at the age of 65. It’s never too late to find love or to start over.

This is your cue to Spring forward and follow your dreams.

My mother used to say, if not now-when? And if not you, then Who?
Might as well be YOU!!!

Thank you to all of my followers, old and new.🙏🏽

My goal is to inspire you to live positively, vibrantly, have faith in God, and go after your dreams!!!
#inspiration#over60andfabulous #grayhair#grayhairjourney#inspiringstories #fyp #positiveaging#proagerevolution#wocinfluencer#blasian#thisis67#brooklyngirl#nycgirl
More 70s…
I think I took more photos in the 1970s than any other decade, up until now, that is.
It was such a creative time in vintage NYC for everyone it seems-musicians, artists, photographers all got their groove on. Being immersed in a creative environment at art school provided me with the wonderful opportunity to be both photographed and drawn by my fellow students. I can’t remember who took these!
All great memories.
#tbt#throwbackthursday #blasian#blackandfilipino #vintagephotos #brooklyngirl#vintage70sfashion #newyorkcitygirl

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