Embracing Yourself in a Youth Oriented Culture

by | Feb 15, 2025

As we age, embracing our natural beauty becomes an act of faith and self-love. In a society that idolizes youth,
embracing physical changes can be challenging. Let’s face it, the wrinkles are deepening, the skin is sagging,
and the waist is expanding. For many of us the kids are grown, we are retired and in our golden years; Curses!!!
We’ve finally figured out who the heck we are, and now our bodies are falling apart! 😳 Yet, 2 Corinthians 4:16
encourages us,
“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are
being renewed day by day.
” Our true beauty is found within, so what do we do to bring that inner beauty out?
We do not lose heart nor will we go gentle into that good night -as Dylan Thomas said.
In a world inundated with “anti-aging” labels and products, we, the new breed of baby boomers stand as the
pioneers of a new era, rewriting the narrative with power and grace. We embrace the beauty of growing older,
not as something to be feared or fought against, but as a journey to be celebrated. This is more than a shift in
language—it’s a movement. We’re redefining aging as a positive, pro-aging experience because every wrinkle
and silver strand tells the story of resilience, wisdom, and the simple yet profound blessing of still being here. It’s
time we honor that and live boldly in the skin we’re in. Aging gracefully means acknowledging the changes in our bodies and finding beauty in them. Each wrinkle and gray hair are a testament to a life well-lived, full of
experiences and wisdom.
When I finally chose to embrace my gray hair, something profound happened- I embraced all of myself. In that
moment of acceptance, I shed the burdens of societal expectations and stood firmly in the truth of who I am.
What followed was nothing short of transformative. The world, which had once seemed to mirror my
insecurities,and fear of looking old, began to reflect back a newfound confidence and radiance. It’s as if by
owning every part of my journey, the universe responded in kind, acknowledging my strength, my wisdom, and
my unwavering self-assurance. This wasn’t just about hair; it was about reclaiming my power, and in doing so, I
invited the world to see me as I truly am—bold, beautiful, and unapologetically me.
Here are some things we can do to age gracefully:
Let your wardrobe reflect your vibrant spirit. Choose clothes that make you feel confident and comfortable,
honoring the body God has given you.
Embrace changes with grace and dignity. Start by celebrating your gray hair, deciding to ditch the dye, or even
try a bold new haircut. Each strand tells a story of wisdom and experience.
Self-care is crucial. Develop a skincare routine that nourishes your skin and soul. Use nourishing products that
enhance your natural beauty and take time for relaxation and reflection. Hydration, both inside and out, is
crucial. Drink plenty of water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type. Protect your skin from excessive sun
exposure and treat it with the kindness it deserves. Embrace a healthy lifestyle with balanced nutrition and regular exercise. Listen to your body and respect its
needs. Holistic practices like yoga and meditation can bring peace and rejuvenation, aligning your physical and
spiritual well-being.
Enhance your appearance by taking care of your skin and hair with natural, nourishing products. Hydration, both
inside and out, is crucial. Drink plenty of water and use moisturizers that suit your skin type. Protect your skin
from excessive sun exposure and treat it with the kindness it deserves.
Most importantly, love yourself fiercely. Jesus said in Matthew 22:39,
“Love your neighbor as yourself.
” Self-love
is not selfish; it’s a foundation for loving others. Celebrate your journey, and let your inner beauty radiate
outward.
Newsflash!!📣 This is not just for women! Celebrate your age and the beauty that comes with it. Let your light
shine brightly, reflecting the love and grace of God in every aspect of your being.
Psalm 139:14 reminds us,
“I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
” Accepting ourselves is a testament to God’s perfect creation.

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Happy Saturday.
What a way to have a Spa day…
Day pass at @ojocalienteresort in New Mexico was all we needed to reset before heading back to Arizona. An unbelievable 12 areas to soak those old bones in legendary
spring-fed waters, straight from the source, and gently heated. I enjoyed a blue corn, prickly pear, sea salt scrub and my skin still feel soft and smooth a week later.
Highly recommended if you’re in the area.

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I’m still on the road so this is from 2023…
Still works!! Happy 4th and be safe everyone!!❤️🤍💙🇺🇸
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Santa Fe Part 2.
The sights. The sounds. The energy. All so good! Just walking the vibrant streets is everything. Art and color everywhere.
We went to the @georgiaokeefemuseum to see the history of her life’s journey up until her life here in Santa Fe. I understand why she moved here. Then we  had a smoothie @fusion_deliciascafe_ 
Just a great carefree time, and I wasn’t too consumed with content creation, so much so that I didn’t take photos of our amazing dinner @cafe_pasquals…Oh well, next time. 
#midlifetraveller #santafe#babyboomers #flygrannybk#newmexico
I’ve been to Santa Fe before—but just a pass-through. A wave. A taste. This time, I got to stay awhile. And baby… what a difference. I let the city pour over me—every color, every sound, every bit of that rich, artsy soul. The adobe, the turquoise, the scent of chile in the air—it was all speaking my language.
I wandered through galleries, ate food that made me close my eyes, listened to the jingle of silver bracelets and the stories in the walls. Santa Fe isn’t just a place you visit—it’s a place you feel. And this time, I felt all of it. The land. The history. The spirit. I left full—in heart, in soul… and yes, I plan to come back! It definitely fed the artist in my soul!
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92 and still spry! Keep it moving folks, age is truly what you make it!!💜💜
Enjoying some down time in New Mexico.
Happy Friday y’all.

#travel#newmexico#americathebeautiful #summervibes

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