From Brooklyn Brownstones to Southwest Sunsets: My Journey from NYC to Northern Arizona

by | Aug 22, 2024

Growing up in Brooklyn, I wore the badge of a city girl with pride. The bustling streets, the vibrant culture, the intoxicating energy—all of it formed the backdrop to my life. But, as life would have it, love sometimes takes you on unexpected journeys. When I married my husband, Dave, we embarked on a wild adventure to the wide-open spaces of Prescott, Arizona. Trading skyscrapers for saguaros wasn’t just a change of scenery; it was a life-altering experience.

 

 

Navigating the Change of Pace

Leaving behind the ceaseless hum of Brooklyn for the mellow vibes of a small town was my first hurdle. In Brooklyn, life moved at the speed of a New York minute– literally! But Prescott? Time seemed to slow down in the best way. It was like stepping into a time warp where the seconds stretched longer and the days unfolded with ease. Adjusting to this slower pace wasn’t easy at first, but I embraced the change by getting involved in the community. I found joy in local events, volunteer work, and even took up hiking—a new hobby that my Brooklyn self would have laughed at. I found a great church and have formed more meaningful friendships here because the pace is slower and everyone is so busy in NYC.

Learning to Live Locally

Brooklyn spoiled me with its endless amenities. Anything I needed was just around the corner, open 24/7. Prescott taught me to be resourceful. I learned to rely on local shops and farmers’ markets, discovering the charm and satisfaction in supporting local businesses. And guess what? I survived! There’s something empowering about knowing you can adapt and thrive wherever you are planted.

Building New Bridges

Starting fresh in a new place meant forging a new social circle from scratch. While Brooklyn’s social scene is like an all-you-can-eat buffet, small-town life is more like a potluck. I had to bring something to the table to make connections. Joining my local church and volunteering became my gateway to forming friendships. In this tight-knit community, I’ve found camaraderie and genuine connections that have enriched my life beyond measure.

 

 

Discovering the Priceless Benefits

Outdoor Adventures: There’s nothing quite like waking up to fresh air and open spaces.  Northern Arizona offers a playground of outdoor exploration that city life never could.The beauty of nature here nourishes my soul in ways I never imagined.

Community Spirit: Neighbors here aren’t just acquaintances; they’re friends who look out for one another. The sense of community is genuine, filling my heart with warmth and belonging.

Cost of Living: Compared toBrooklyn, life in Prescott is remarkably affordable. This has brought a sense of financial peace and the freedom to enjoy life without constant worry.

Mental Well-being: Gone is the relentless stress of city life. Here, I’ve found a more relaxed daily rhythm, which has done wonders for my mental health.

 

Being My Authentic Self

The transition from urban to rural has been a personal evolution for me—one that has empowered me to break free from societal norms and fully embrace a life that feels authentically mine. If you’re considering a similar move, I say go for it! The world is full of opportunities to rediscover yourself in the most unexpected places.

Remember, life is not about where you are, but who you become along the way. Here’s to new adventures and endless possibilities!

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