From Brooklyn Brownstones to Southwest Sunsets: My Journey from NYC to Northern Arizona

by | Aug 22, 2024

Growing up in Brooklyn, I wore the badge of a city girl with pride. The bustling streets, the vibrant culture, the intoxicating energy—all of it formed the backdrop to my life. But, as life would have it, love sometimes takes you on unexpected journeys. When I married my husband, Dave, we embarked on a wild adventure to the wide-open spaces of Prescott, Arizona. Trading skyscrapers for saguaros wasn’t just a change of scenery; it was a life-altering experience.

 

 

Navigating the Change of Pace

Leaving behind the ceaseless hum of Brooklyn for the mellow vibes of a small town was my first hurdle. In Brooklyn, life moved at the speed of a New York minute– literally! But Prescott? Time seemed to slow down in the best way. It was like stepping into a time warp where the seconds stretched longer and the days unfolded with ease. Adjusting to this slower pace wasn’t easy at first, but I embraced the change by getting involved in the community. I found joy in local events, volunteer work, and even took up hiking—a new hobby that my Brooklyn self would have laughed at. I found a great church and have formed more meaningful friendships here because the pace is slower and everyone is so busy in NYC.

Learning to Live Locally

Brooklyn spoiled me with its endless amenities. Anything I needed was just around the corner, open 24/7. Prescott taught me to be resourceful. I learned to rely on local shops and farmers’ markets, discovering the charm and satisfaction in supporting local businesses. And guess what? I survived! There’s something empowering about knowing you can adapt and thrive wherever you are planted.

Building New Bridges

Starting fresh in a new place meant forging a new social circle from scratch. While Brooklyn’s social scene is like an all-you-can-eat buffet, small-town life is more like a potluck. I had to bring something to the table to make connections. Joining my local church and volunteering became my gateway to forming friendships. In this tight-knit community, I’ve found camaraderie and genuine connections that have enriched my life beyond measure.

 

 

Discovering the Priceless Benefits

Outdoor Adventures: There’s nothing quite like waking up to fresh air and open spaces.  Northern Arizona offers a playground of outdoor exploration that city life never could.The beauty of nature here nourishes my soul in ways I never imagined.

Community Spirit: Neighbors here aren’t just acquaintances; they’re friends who look out for one another. The sense of community is genuine, filling my heart with warmth and belonging.

Cost of Living: Compared toBrooklyn, life in Prescott is remarkably affordable. This has brought a sense of financial peace and the freedom to enjoy life without constant worry.

Mental Well-being: Gone is the relentless stress of city life. Here, I’ve found a more relaxed daily rhythm, which has done wonders for my mental health.

 

Being My Authentic Self

The transition from urban to rural has been a personal evolution for me—one that has empowered me to break free from societal norms and fully embrace a life that feels authentically mine. If you’re considering a similar move, I say go for it! The world is full of opportunities to rediscover yourself in the most unexpected places.

Remember, life is not about where you are, but who you become along the way. Here’s to new adventures and endless possibilities!

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Romans 3:23-24
23 “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
24  and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.

It doesn’t matter how good we think we are, fact is we are all fallen beings. 
Just think about our cute little toddlers, does anyone teach them to tell a fib? It’s innate. I’m thankful that we have an advocate and  His name is Jesus.

As always, reminding myself as I remind y’all🙏🏽❤️

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I might look confident in this photo, but trust me—I haven’t always felt this way. 😌
I’ve always had a sharp eye for style (hello, former designer life 👗), but looking put-together was often my shield. People would compliment the outfit and never see the shy girl hiding behind it. It’s easy to hide in plain sight when everyone’s distracted by the clothes.
Growing up as the only girl with four older brothers, I got used to staying quiet. My oldest brother once told me my opinion didn’t matter “because I was just a girl.” Those words stuck deeper than I realized, keeping me in the shadows, comfortable behind the scenes, friendly but never front and center.
Then, in my 30s, everything flipped. He started bragging about my career, putting me on a pedestal. One day I finally spoke up—confronted the old hurt—and let it go. Turns out he didn’t even know how much it affected me. I’ve forgiven him completely. But man, it taught me: words matter. To your kids, your friends, your partner—they land heavier than we think. 💔➡️❤️
Fast forward to today: I’m out here on social media, gray hair and all, no more hiding. The moment I stopped apologizing for myself, the world started reflecting that acceptance back. Sure, I still get the occasional negative comment, but the love far outweighs it. I’m content, confident, and fully embracing my Big Age. 🌟
If you’ve ever felt like you’re hiding behind a polished exterior, or letting old words hold you back—know this: You don’t have to stay there. Accept yourself unapologetically, step into your truth, and watch how boldly the right people show up.
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“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers,  neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.“

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