The Life of an Influencer

by | Aug 31, 2024

Hello, fabulous friends! I’m FlyGrannyBk, your go-to muse for aging with grace, style, and beauty. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be an influencer who loves flaunting silver locks and living life to the fullest. Let’s chat about the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

How It All Started

Believe it or not, my influencer adventure began as a simple IG page in Brooklyn, where I would post family pics and snippets from my everyday life. The pivotal moment? Ditching the dye. That single decision changed the trajectory of my life. In 2020, I embraced my natural gray hair and became a full-fledged influencer. By 2021, I had turned this passion into a business, started monetizing my content, and brands began reaching out to me for hair and skin care collaborations.

Celebrating Milestones and Motivation

Reaching 100k followers was like tasting a sweet slice of validation cake! It was a significant milestone that made all the hard work feel SO worth it and inspired me to keep inspiring you. My goal is simple yet profound—to inspire women to shine bright no matter their age. Our gray hair is our crown, and trust me, it sparkles beautifully when you wear it with confidence!

Facing Trolls and Tight Schedules

Now, let’s talk about some of the challenges. For every ray of sunshine, there’s a cloud or two, and yes, I’m talking about the trolls. No matter how positive you are, someone will always have something negative to say. But here’s the tea, my dear Silver Sisters—those negative Nellies will never outshine our inner radiance.

Traveling for shoots across the US is another blessing wrapped in a challenge. It’s exhilarating but can feel daunting when your schedule gets packed. The key? Finding balance and making sure to indulge in some self-care along the way.

Advice for Aspiring Influencers

For those of you dreaming of joining the influencer world, here’s my two cents wrapped in love and sprinkled with wisdom:

  • Stay True to Yourself: Authenticity is your best accessory. Be your fabulous self and stick to your values. This is what builds a loyal, engaged following.
  • Consistency is Crucial: Regular posting and engaging with your audience keeps the connection alive. Think of it as watering a beautiful garden—you nurture it consistently to see it bloom.
  • Hard Work Pays Off: Being an influencer isn’t just about taking cute photos. It’s dedication, perseverance, and sometimes a sprinkle of late nights editing content.
  • Learn from Challenges: Every hiccup is a lesson. Whether it’s dealing with negativity or managing a whirlwind schedule, these experiences only add more chapters to your story.
  • Use Your Platform for Good: Inspire, uplift, and share your knowledge. Remember, your influence can make a difference in someone’s life. That’s powerful stuff!

Insights from the Journey

Being an influencer has taught me that age is no barrier to living your dreams. It’s about celebrating who you are, right here and now. If you need more motivation to step into your power, join the Silver Sisters Crew here at FlyGrannyBk.com! Together, we’ll continue to break societal norms and redefine what it means to age with flair.

Remember, you’re never too old to set new goals or dream a new dream. Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

Stay connected with me on Instagram at @flygrannybk for daily doses of inspiration, style tips, and behind-the-scenes looks at my influencer life.

Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

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Quick ride to Jerome, Arizona just over an hour from where we live here in Prescott Valley. It’s a cute little copper mining town,there’s all kinds of historic stores and relics and places that have copper jewelry, which I’ve been into lately.
I heard the population is 400😲
I heard that it is a haunted little ghost town, and they actually have haunted house tours. 
The views are spectacular.
It would be nice to spend a weekend here before it gets too cold!!

@jerome_arizona #arizonaskies#daytripping #jeromearizona
Not gonna lie, online dating today can be scary. Any dating today can be scary truth be told. But like  the lottery you gotta be in it to win it!
Actually, a lot of couples I meet today many of them met online.

Of course, like anything we have to be very careful. But it’s possible.
Just putting it out there.
Keep Hope alive.
Love Didn’t Expire at 50, and love is possible at any age!

If you’re ready to at least try, comment “Ready” below to Get my free download with tips on online dating as well as some sites you can check out.
Here’s to you!
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Sunday Service.

Garden metaphors and parables are widely used in scripture, and no wonder because they mirror life in many ways.
I love this verse:
“And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” Galatians 6:9

Life can be wearying and we all get “Tied”😩
Don’t give up Fam! Keep going!
Beauty is on the other side!
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On this day 4 years ago we tied the knot. The original plan was just to go to city hall, but my granddaughter insisted that I have a real wedding because she 
wanted to be the flower girl and had several dresses picked out. She proceeded to shop for dresses and drove everyone crazy for weeks sending photos almost every day.
I’m so glad she did because we ended up inviting our children and grandchildren and it was a memorable event with beautiful Sedona as the spectacular backdrop.
Thanks to our wonderful families for showing up and thanks for taking the wonderful photos since the photographer didn’t make it!

Anyhoo-here we are 4 years later and it truly feels like yesterday. We are truly Blessed and want to encourage folks that Love Doesn’t Expire at 50. Our love story started when we were 60.

Thanks for stopping by!

#loveover50 #anniversary #maturecouple#babyboomer#flyageless
With our 4th anniversary coming up tomorrow, we’ve been meaning to post a few videos all week, but time got away from us. So we just did an impromptu quick candid video here and I’m gonna split it up into a few different videos so I hope you enjoy it. We are living proof that Love is possible at any age. Thanks for being here.

Love Didn’t Expire at 50!!! Stay tuned for more.

Adelina and David

Instagram said it won’t share this video with new audiences because it’s over 3 minutes long-but we can fight the Power ! Share it with your friends and let them know we are living proof that Love is possible at any age. 

#maturecouple#couplegoals#babyboomers#christiancouple
Now this is a PSA for all ages actually…just some things that I’ve been thinking about, but I’m talking to myself too!!

We can have gorgeous clothes , and look Fly, But…

Waistline: I’ve always kept a pretty small waistline using waist trainers, etc. for years-but as I approach 70….yeah I said it-70… It’s increasingly difficult to keep that svelte, tight waist going. But I’m not giving up! There is a big difference in appearance when you have a trim waistline, not to mention visceral fat around the waist is detrimental to health and wellness especially as we age.

Posture: something else I catch myself slumping when I’m sitting down and slouching when I’m walking, I caught myself in the mirror as I walked by a couple of times and corrected it.

Walking: I know the joints aren’t cooperating as they once did, but you can catch yourself and train yourself to have more pep in your step.

Bra: Y’all, I’m not gonna lie. Everything is sagging, but I am doing some weight training to combat all of it. But we can all use a better fitting bra, which helps for more useful appearance.

Face: Facial expressions- sour face or smile? Pro tip: Yes, smiling triggers a chemical reaction in the brain that releases endorphins, along with dopamine and serotonin. This process is part of the facial feedback loop, where the physical act of moving facial muscles sends signals back to the brain to lift your mood and lower stress.

There are so many things that we can change about ourselves. I know some of them are habits that are deeply embedded, but it’s still not too late.
Anyway, just a few little tips if you’re wanting to look and maybe feel a little peppier. And like I said this is for everyone, even you young folks. If you start now you’ll be ahead of the game..

What are your thoughts? Do you have any other tips for enhancing a more youthful appearance? 

Do you even care? 😅

Thanks for stopping by and have a wonderful weekend!

#aginggracefully#positiveaging#blessednotstressed#flyageless#transformation

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