The Life of an Influencer

by | Aug 31, 2024

Hello, fabulous friends! I’m FlyGrannyBk, your go-to muse for aging with grace, style, and beauty. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be an influencer who loves flaunting silver locks and living life to the fullest. Let’s chat about the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

How It All Started

Believe it or not, my influencer adventure began as a simple IG page in Brooklyn, where I would post family pics and snippets from my everyday life. The pivotal moment? Ditching the dye. That single decision changed the trajectory of my life. In 2020, I embraced my natural gray hair and became a full-fledged influencer. By 2021, I had turned this passion into a business, started monetizing my content, and brands began reaching out to me for hair and skin care collaborations.

Celebrating Milestones and Motivation

Reaching 100k followers was like tasting a sweet slice of validation cake! It was a significant milestone that made all the hard work feel SO worth it and inspired me to keep inspiring you. My goal is simple yet profound—to inspire women to shine bright no matter their age. Our gray hair is our crown, and trust me, it sparkles beautifully when you wear it with confidence!

Facing Trolls and Tight Schedules

Now, let’s talk about some of the challenges. For every ray of sunshine, there’s a cloud or two, and yes, I’m talking about the trolls. No matter how positive you are, someone will always have something negative to say. But here’s the tea, my dear Silver Sisters—those negative Nellies will never outshine our inner radiance.

Traveling for shoots across the US is another blessing wrapped in a challenge. It’s exhilarating but can feel daunting when your schedule gets packed. The key? Finding balance and making sure to indulge in some self-care along the way.

Advice for Aspiring Influencers

For those of you dreaming of joining the influencer world, here’s my two cents wrapped in love and sprinkled with wisdom:

  • Stay True to Yourself: Authenticity is your best accessory. Be your fabulous self and stick to your values. This is what builds a loyal, engaged following.
  • Consistency is Crucial: Regular posting and engaging with your audience keeps the connection alive. Think of it as watering a beautiful garden—you nurture it consistently to see it bloom.
  • Hard Work Pays Off: Being an influencer isn’t just about taking cute photos. It’s dedication, perseverance, and sometimes a sprinkle of late nights editing content.
  • Learn from Challenges: Every hiccup is a lesson. Whether it’s dealing with negativity or managing a whirlwind schedule, these experiences only add more chapters to your story.
  • Use Your Platform for Good: Inspire, uplift, and share your knowledge. Remember, your influence can make a difference in someone’s life. That’s powerful stuff!

Insights from the Journey

Being an influencer has taught me that age is no barrier to living your dreams. It’s about celebrating who you are, right here and now. If you need more motivation to step into your power, join the Silver Sisters Crew here at FlyGrannyBk.com! Together, we’ll continue to break societal norms and redefine what it means to age with flair.

Remember, you’re never too old to set new goals or dream a new dream. Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

Stay connected with me on Instagram at @flygrannybk for daily doses of inspiration, style tips, and behind-the-scenes looks at my influencer life.

Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

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There’s something about getting older that teaches you the difference between luxury and peace. One costs money. The other costs years.
Years of lessons.�Years of heartbreak.�Years of overextending, overthinking, overgiving.
So yes… these days I’ll gladly sit in beautiful places, wear the white linen, order the good meal, and disappear into serene aqua views without one ounce of guilt.
Because this softness?�It wasn’t handed to me.�I earned every bit of it.
Bali has been good for my spirit.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is step away from the noise…
At this age, I no longer vacation to impress people.�I vacation to hear myself think again. 

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#FlyGrannyBK #ProAging #Over60Style #BaliVacation #AgingWithStyle

Do you need a reset?
A monkey literally stole my eyeglasses right off my face!!
We were forewarned by everyone including staff, and a woman who had just witnessed phones and sunglasses getting stolen, and the monkeys running off into the trees, never to be seen again!
We were careful, or so we thought.
I held onto the rim of my glasses while walking , and we held our phones securely in front us. 
I felt someone push me. It felt like a person, until I realized it was a monkey. Then we stopped to ask a quick question, dropped our guard and Mr. Monkey swooped down and grabbed my glasses before I even realized it! He was that quick. A local guide saved the day by throwing a banana at him, and he dropped my glasses.
I saw him up in that tree and thought they would be gone forever! Grateful for the guide. We didn’t see him in action crafty suckas!!😂🙈🐒

#BaliAdventures #monkeystory #travelmishaps #Grayhairdontcare
Yes, Virginia, Bali is everything I have ever dreamed of! Lush.Tropical.Hot.

It was worth the long flight… three legs-Phoenix to Seattle, Seattle to Taiwan, Taiwan to Bali. So if you are planning to go, you will lose a day going, and gain a day coming back. That’s why we decided to at least be here more than a week because it made more sense.
Anyway, here are some tidbits, and keep checking in for more. There’s a lot more to see, and we’ve just begun!

 #birthdayvibes, #bali, #balilife, #travelinspiration, #livelifefully,
Still here enjoying Bali- but my hair…not so much, so I decided to get my hair braided at a local massage spa (Anggita spa Seminyak )that also braided hair lol. I didn’t quite know what to expect, but I was pleasantly surprised. As you can see in the video it’s a whole different process than it is in the states where the hair is already packaged. They unravel ribbon and turn it into Hair filaments. It was amazing anyway check out the video so you can see the process and let me know what you think below!
#balivacation #hairbraiding #bali #seminyak#grayhairstyles

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