The Life of an Influencer

by | Aug 31, 2024

Hello, fabulous friends! I’m FlyGrannyBk, your go-to muse for aging with grace, style, and beauty. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be an influencer who loves flaunting silver locks and living life to the fullest. Let’s chat about the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

How It All Started

Believe it or not, my influencer adventure began as a simple IG page in Brooklyn, where I would post family pics and snippets from my everyday life. The pivotal moment? Ditching the dye. That single decision changed the trajectory of my life. In 2020, I embraced my natural gray hair and became a full-fledged influencer. By 2021, I had turned this passion into a business, started monetizing my content, and brands began reaching out to me for hair and skin care collaborations.

Celebrating Milestones and Motivation

Reaching 100k followers was like tasting a sweet slice of validation cake! It was a significant milestone that made all the hard work feel SO worth it and inspired me to keep inspiring you. My goal is simple yet profound—to inspire women to shine bright no matter their age. Our gray hair is our crown, and trust me, it sparkles beautifully when you wear it with confidence!

Facing Trolls and Tight Schedules

Now, let’s talk about some of the challenges. For every ray of sunshine, there’s a cloud or two, and yes, I’m talking about the trolls. No matter how positive you are, someone will always have something negative to say. But here’s the tea, my dear Silver Sisters—those negative Nellies will never outshine our inner radiance.

Traveling for shoots across the US is another blessing wrapped in a challenge. It’s exhilarating but can feel daunting when your schedule gets packed. The key? Finding balance and making sure to indulge in some self-care along the way.

Advice for Aspiring Influencers

For those of you dreaming of joining the influencer world, here’s my two cents wrapped in love and sprinkled with wisdom:

  • Stay True to Yourself: Authenticity is your best accessory. Be your fabulous self and stick to your values. This is what builds a loyal, engaged following.
  • Consistency is Crucial: Regular posting and engaging with your audience keeps the connection alive. Think of it as watering a beautiful garden—you nurture it consistently to see it bloom.
  • Hard Work Pays Off: Being an influencer isn’t just about taking cute photos. It’s dedication, perseverance, and sometimes a sprinkle of late nights editing content.
  • Learn from Challenges: Every hiccup is a lesson. Whether it’s dealing with negativity or managing a whirlwind schedule, these experiences only add more chapters to your story.
  • Use Your Platform for Good: Inspire, uplift, and share your knowledge. Remember, your influence can make a difference in someone’s life. That’s powerful stuff!

Insights from the Journey

Being an influencer has taught me that age is no barrier to living your dreams. It’s about celebrating who you are, right here and now. If you need more motivation to step into your power, join the Silver Sisters Crew here at FlyGrannyBk.com! Together, we’ll continue to break societal norms and redefine what it means to age with flair.

Remember, you’re never too old to set new goals or dream a new dream. Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

Stay connected with me on Instagram at @flygrannybk for daily doses of inspiration, style tips, and behind-the-scenes looks at my influencer life.

Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

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There is power in the name of Jesus—to break every chain…As I stood on those steps, framed by that black gate with the lock and chain, I couldn’t help but reflect on the bondage I’ve known—fear, shame, pride, and sin that tried to own me. But in Christ, those chains didn’t just loosen, they shattered. The enemy builds gates to keep us trapped in the shadows, but Jesus—He is the Key, He is the Way, the Truth and the Light. Through Him, we walk boldly out of darkness, no longer defined by what once held us back.
These photos reminded me: the chains may look strong, the gates may look final, but the truth is, when you are in Christ, you are free indeed. Not just free to walk away from what bound you—but free to walk into purpose, into joy, into His marvelous light. 
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Remember, age is just a number. Let’s celebrate every year with confidence and grace. These are my last few weeks at level 67, and I look forward to 68!
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