From Brooklyn Brownstones to Southwest Sunsets: My Journey from NYC to Northern Arizona

by | Aug 22, 2024

Growing up in Brooklyn, I wore the badge of a city girl with pride. The bustling streets, the vibrant culture, the intoxicating energy—all of it formed the backdrop to my life. But, as life would have it, love sometimes takes you on unexpected journeys. When I married my husband, Dave, we embarked on a wild adventure to the wide-open spaces of Prescott, Arizona. Trading skyscrapers for saguaros wasn’t just a change of scenery; it was a life-altering experience.

 

 

Navigating the Change of Pace

Leaving behind the ceaseless hum of Brooklyn for the mellow vibes of a small town was my first hurdle. In Brooklyn, life moved at the speed of a New York minute– literally! But Prescott? Time seemed to slow down in the best way. It was like stepping into a time warp where the seconds stretched longer and the days unfolded with ease. Adjusting to this slower pace wasn’t easy at first, but I embraced the change by getting involved in the community. I found joy in local events, volunteer work, and even took up hiking—a new hobby that my Brooklyn self would have laughed at. I found a great church and have formed more meaningful friendships here because the pace is slower and everyone is so busy in NYC.

Learning to Live Locally

Brooklyn spoiled me with its endless amenities. Anything I needed was just around the corner, open 24/7. Prescott taught me to be resourceful. I learned to rely on local shops and farmers’ markets, discovering the charm and satisfaction in supporting local businesses. And guess what? I survived! There’s something empowering about knowing you can adapt and thrive wherever you are planted.

Building New Bridges

Starting fresh in a new place meant forging a new social circle from scratch. While Brooklyn’s social scene is like an all-you-can-eat buffet, small-town life is more like a potluck. I had to bring something to the table to make connections. Joining my local church and volunteering became my gateway to forming friendships. In this tight-knit community, I’ve found camaraderie and genuine connections that have enriched my life beyond measure.

 

 

Discovering the Priceless Benefits

Outdoor Adventures: There’s nothing quite like waking up to fresh air and open spaces.  Northern Arizona offers a playground of outdoor exploration that city life never could.The beauty of nature here nourishes my soul in ways I never imagined.

Community Spirit: Neighbors here aren’t just acquaintances; they’re friends who look out for one another. The sense of community is genuine, filling my heart with warmth and belonging.

Cost of Living: Compared toBrooklyn, life in Prescott is remarkably affordable. This has brought a sense of financial peace and the freedom to enjoy life without constant worry.

Mental Well-being: Gone is the relentless stress of city life. Here, I’ve found a more relaxed daily rhythm, which has done wonders for my mental health.

 

Being My Authentic Self

The transition from urban to rural has been a personal evolution for me—one that has empowered me to break free from societal norms and fully embrace a life that feels authentically mine. If you’re considering a similar move, I say go for it! The world is full of opportunities to rediscover yourself in the most unexpected places.

Remember, life is not about where you are, but who you become along the way. Here’s to new adventures and endless possibilities!

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Garden metaphors and parables are widely used in scripture, and no wonder because they mirror life in many ways.
I love this verse:
“And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” Galatians 6:9

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On this day 4 years ago we tied the knot. The original plan was just to go to city hall, but my granddaughter insisted that I have a real wedding because she 
wanted to be the flower girl and had several dresses picked out. She proceeded to shop for dresses and drove everyone crazy for weeks sending photos almost every day.
I’m so glad she did because we ended up inviting our children and grandchildren and it was a memorable event with beautiful Sedona as the spectacular backdrop.
Thanks to our wonderful families for showing up and thanks for taking the wonderful photos since the photographer didn’t make it!

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With our 4th anniversary coming up tomorrow, we’ve been meaning to post a few videos all week, but time got away from us. So we just did an impromptu quick candid video here and I’m gonna split it up into a few different videos so I hope you enjoy it. We are living proof that Love is possible at any age. Thanks for being here.

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Now this is a PSA for all ages actually…just some things that I’ve been thinking about, but I’m talking to myself too!!

We can have gorgeous clothes , and look Fly, But…

Waistline: I’ve always kept a pretty small waistline using waist trainers, etc. for years-but as I approach 70….yeah I said it-70… It’s increasingly difficult to keep that svelte, tight waist going. But I’m not giving up! There is a big difference in appearance when you have a trim waistline, not to mention visceral fat around the waist is detrimental to health and wellness especially as we age.

Posture: something else I catch myself slumping when I’m sitting down and slouching when I’m walking, I caught myself in the mirror as I walked by a couple of times and corrected it.

Walking: I know the joints aren’t cooperating as they once did, but you can catch yourself and train yourself to have more pep in your step.

Bra: Y’all, I’m not gonna lie. Everything is sagging, but I am doing some weight training to combat all of it. But we can all use a better fitting bra, which helps for more useful appearance.

Face: Facial expressions- sour face or smile? Pro tip: Yes, smiling triggers a chemical reaction in the brain that releases endorphins, along with dopamine and serotonin. This process is part of the facial feedback loop, where the physical act of moving facial muscles sends signals back to the brain to lift your mood and lower stress.

There are so many things that we can change about ourselves. I know some of them are habits that are deeply embedded, but it’s still not too late.
Anyway, just a few little tips if you’re wanting to look and maybe feel a little peppier. And like I said this is for everyone, even you young folks. If you start now you’ll be ahead of the game..

What are your thoughts? Do you have any other tips for enhancing a more youthful appearance? 

Do you even care? 😅

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