Silver Lining: Adelina’s Story of Embracing Every Season with Style!

by | Jan 22, 2025

Back when I was living in Brooklyn a few years ago, I found myself in an unexpected situation that left me reflecting on the perceptions of age and vitality. As I strolled down the street behind a group of high school students, I couldn’t help but notice their slower pace. Suddenly, one of the young men glanced back and quipped, “let the old lady pass.” Old lady? I couldn’t help but chuckle to myself. as I spryly raced past them. Was that label really meant for me? You see, what they didn’t know was that my gray hair wasn’t a symbol of slowing down; it was a badge of embracing my whole self and all the experiences that come with it.

It’s funny how a simple moment like that can spark a journey of self-discovery. Rather than feeling offended, I felt empowered. Embracing my gray hair wasn’t just about accepting a natural part of aging; it was about embracing my entire being and reinventing myself in the process. I realized that age isn’t a limitation; it’s an opportunity to rewrite the script of your life.

So, I decided to take that opportunity and run with it. I found a new calling as a social media influencer, using my platform to change the narrative around aging and gray hair. Through my posts on dating over 50, fitness, fashion, and beauty,and faith, I share my journey of living positively and gracefully in every area of life. I want my readers to know that it’s never too late to reinvent yourself, to start over, or to embrace every aspect of who you are.

Life is a journey, and I’m here to share that it’s never too late to live vibrantly, passionately, and authentically. With each post I hope to inspire others to embrace their own journey of self discovery and to live their lives to the fullest, regardless of age or circumstance. So, here’s to rewriting the narrative, embracing our Gray hair, and living our best lives, one vibrant moment at a time.

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From the mouths of babes…
My Cheerleader, my Gray Hair Advocate, My biggest inspiration in 
life @dad_hat718. When I lose my social media Mojo-who you gonna call?
This video is from a few months ago when family was visiting.
He helped me redefine my Why.
I wish everyone was so blesse , and please share with other Fly mature social media folks to remind them why they do this.
#grayhairdontcare 
#sundayinspiration
#Mothersandsons
#boymom
#yourwhy 
#brooklynnatives
 #family
I just got tired of putting eyeliner on every single day again because the permanent liner that I had done a few years ago was starting to fade. So it was time to refresh them, and I have been searching for a while and didn’t feel like driving two hours down to the Phoenix area, or wait until I went back to NYC, so I found Natural Beauty By Kelly who does permanent make up in the area. Now it’s just a half hour drive instead. 
Now I can truly say, “I woke up like this!!!”
@natural_beauty_by_kelly_ 

How do you feel about permanent makeup?

 #eyeliner #permanentliner #arizonamakeupartist #permanentmakeup #beautyatanyage #sexyat60 #maturewoman #grayhair #permanentmakeup #explorepage
Now this is how you step up your sneaker game. 👠👟
These Sneex high-heeled kicks? Baby, they go with everything. @sneex 
From brunch fits to date-night looks—I’ve been styling them every which way, and they never miss.
Finally, a heel that treats your feet right.
Comment “Shoes” below Or
Click the link in my bio to Shop My links and where to snag a pair!

#Sneex
#styleover60
#over60andfabulous
#aginglikefinewine
#fallfashionideas
Some fall inspo…
Haven’t done one of these in a while, but thanks to @vinniecedufresne I was inspired to get back to it now that the weather is changing. We still get some spotty warm weather here in AZ so layering is key.
This is actually a haul from my own closet with a few new pieces and updating with a few new accessories.
You can find them in my Amazon Shop. 
Which look is your favorite? Let me know.
Text the word FALL below and I’ll send you a direct link to my shop.

#styleover60
#over60and fabulous
#olderandbolder 
#fallstyleinspo 
#fallfashion
Curly in the summer, straight in the winter…I like change and the versatility of switching back and forth. So I’ll be going back to straight for the cooler weather in a few days. I’ll see how it goes and how long it lasts when I go to the gym,but for now I’m welcoming the change🍁🍁Plus it’s hard to wear hats with this puffy hair!!😂

Do you switch it up with the changing of the seasons?
#grayhairdontcare
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#silverhair
Last year around this time…
Sedona never gets old — those red rocks hit different every single time! 🌄 Last year’s Pink Jeep adventure was all thrills, dust, and wind-blown gray hair giving main character energy. If you know, you know… Sedona just does something to your soul. 

#SedonaVibes #PinkJeepTours #GrayHairDontCare #FlyGrannyAdventures #SilverSisterOnTheMove #RedRockMagic #TravelOver50 #AgelessAdventures

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Okay, I admit it — this AI thing is getting out of hand! I was just playing around and somehow it turned into a full-blown time travel adventure with me and Dave. One minute we’re in the roaring ’20s, the next we’re grooving through the ’60s and rocking the ’80s. I can’t decide if it’s hilarious, creepy, or kind of amazing — maybe all three!

I know I said I wasn’t going to get sucked into this AI craze, but honestly… it’s too entertaining not to. It’s wild to see what technology can do — and a little reminder that no matter the decade, some things (and some people 😉) never go out of style.
Are you working with AI these days?

Which era do you like best for us?

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