From Brooklyn, With Love

by | Jul 6, 2024 | 0 comments

A Trip that was Good for My Soul

There’s something about Brooklyn that just stays with you. No matter where life takes you, the memories, the sights, the sounds, and the smells remain etched in your soul. Recently, I had the pleasure of taking my hubby back to my old stomping grounds, and it was nothing short of magical. We flew to New York for my birthday, but it was so much more than just a celebration. It was a homecoming, a reconnection with a place that holds so much of my heart.

As we walked through the streets of Brooklyn, hand in hand, I couldn’t help but feel a sense of pride and nostalgia wash over me. The streets were still bustling with life, the smell of fresh bagels and coffee permeating the air. The beautiful chaos of diverse cultures coming together to create an energy unlike anywhere else in the world.

But what truly makes Brooklyn special is not just its vibrant atmosphere or its trendy neighborhoods. It’s the people who call it home. From the old-timers who have been there for generations to the new transplants looking for their place in this concrete jungle, Brooklyn is a melting pot of different backgrounds, stories, and experiences.

Growing up in the Brooklyn housing projects wasn’t just a chapter in my life; it was the foundation upon which I built my dreams and aspirations. The Gowanus Housing Project, just a few subway stops from Manhattan, was the place I called home. At the age of 14, navigating the subway alone was a normal part of my daily routine. It was a different era—kinder in some respects, yet harsher in others. Living across the street from a liquor store, I vividly recall passing by heroin addicts nodding off as I made my way to the train station.

Wanna see more of my old stomping grounds? Check out my post all about it HERE. And, be sure to read on for more of the adventures we had!

Strolling Through Williamsburg

We wandered through the streets of Williamsburg, taking in all the sights and sounds that make Brooklyn so special. From the hip cafes to the vibrant street art, every corner of Williamsburg was a reminder of why Brooklyn will always hold a special place in my heart. It’s a neighborhood that’s seen it all and still stands strong—a true testament to the spirit of Brooklynites.

Authentic Bagels and Good Food

You can’t talk about Brooklyn without mentioning the food. Oh, the food! We indulged in some of the most scrumptious food that I’ve ever had. But, you know what stole the show? The BAGELS! There’s something magical about an authentic New York bagel, with its perfect balance of chewiness and flavor. Find out more about what I ordered HERE. Seriously, if you find yourself in NY, get a bagel. It might change your life!

Family and Fun

A huge highlight of our trip was the quality time we spent with family, sharing stories and laughs, and reminiscing about the good old days. There’s nothing like being surrounded by loved ones in a place that holds so many memories. We took a day trip to the Village of Croton and soaked up every moment we could.  It was a time of joy, love, and connection, and it reminded me of the importance of family and community. I especially enjoyed hangin’ out with my grandbabies and making memories with them at a beautiful park.

The Power of Transformation

The city has changed a lot over the years. Gentrification happened early on, and many neighborhoods have transformed dramatically. Brooklyn is the new Manhattan, y’all!

But no matter how much it changes, Brooklyn’s spirit remains the same, and it will always be a part of me. It is more than a place; it’s a feeling, a memory, and an inspiration. It will always be my home.

With love,

P.S. I would love to hear more about the place that you call home. Comment below to tell me all about the place that has your heart.

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* Be prepared to weather the storms and ups and downs of another persons’ personality and decide whether or not you can deal with it.

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