Learning to Be Content in the Chaos

by Adelina | Jul 29, 2024 | 0 comments

In a world that seems to be spinning faster than we can keep up with, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Yet, amidst the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, we have the power to find peace and happiness right where we are. It’s all about learning to be content in the chaos.

The Quest for Contentment

Today’s world constantly bombards us with messages telling us to do more, be more, and achieve more. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos, forgetting the simple joys that make life so beautiful. But when we pause to appreciate what we have, we discover a profound sense of contentment.

Why Contentment Matters

Contentment isn’t about settling for less; it’s about recognizing and appreciating the abundance that already exists in our lives.

When we learn to be content, we:

Reduce Stress

By focusing on what we have instead of what we lack, we lower our stress levels and improve our overall well-being. Life is beautiful, and when we appreciate this fact, our stress melts away, revealing a more serene existence.

Enhance Relationships

Contentment helps us build stronger, more meaningful relationships. When we’re not constantly striving for external validation, we can truly connect with others on a deeper level.

Boost Creativity

With a clear and peaceful mind, we’re free to explore our passions and express our creativity in new and exciting ways. Contentment opens the door to creative exploration and innovation.

My Journey to Contentment

I’ve had my share of ups and downs, like everyone else. But one thing I’ve learned is that true happiness comes from above. It’s not about material things or the number of likes on a post—it’s about finding joy in the little moments and being grateful for the here and now.

One of my favorite scriptures is Jeremiah 29:11, which says, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” How cool is that? The God who made the universe knows MY name and has plans to prosper ME?! Any way you slice it, that means I am too blessed to be stressed.

Practical Tips for Cultivating Contentment

Practice Gratitude: Take a few minutes each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for. This helps shift your focus from what’s lacking to what’s already present in your life.

Let Go of Comparisons: Comparison is truly the thief of joy. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your own journey and progress. Celebrate your wins and learn from your mistakes.

Find Joy in Simple Things: Happiness doesn’t have to be grand or expensive; it can be found in simple moments like sipping a cup of coffee or spending time with loved ones.

Live Mindfully: Being present in the moment allows you to fully experience and appreciate life. Slow down and notice the beauty around you.

Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: The people we surround ourselves with play a big role in our overall happiness. Choose to spend time with those who uplift and support you.

Embracing Contentment for a Happier Life

When we let go of chasing external sources of happiness and instead focus on cultivating contentment within ourselves, we open up a world of possibilities. We become more resilient, creative, and fulfilled individuals.

Aging and Perspective

One of the significant perks of aging is the ability to keep all of life’s ups and downs in perspective. I believe the best is yet to come, so I try hard to roll with the punches and never let life keep me down for too long. Life is beautiful, and each day is a gift. To find out more about my thoughts on contentment, check out my post on Instagram.

Join the Conversation

Now, I want to hear from YOU! How do you find contentment in our chaotic times? What practices help you stay grounded and grateful? Share your thoughts in the comments below or on my Instagram post. Let’s support each other on this beautiful journey to inner peace.

Remember, you are too blessed to be stressed. Take a moment today to appreciate the beauty around you and the blessings in your life. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that there is a divine plan for each of us, filled with hope and a bright future.

Stay blessed!

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Years of lessons.�Years of heartbreak.�Years of overextending, overthinking, overgiving.
So yes… these days I’ll gladly sit in beautiful places, wear the white linen, order the good meal, and disappear into serene aqua views without one ounce of guilt.
Because this softness?�It wasn’t handed to me.�I earned every bit of it.
Bali has been good for my spirit.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is step away from the noise…
At this age, I no longer vacation to impress people.�I vacation to hear myself think again.

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There’s something about getting older that teaches you the difference between luxury and peace. One costs money. The other costs years.
Years of lessons.�Years of heartbreak.�Years of overextending, overthinking, overgiving.
So yes… these days I’ll gladly sit in beautiful places, wear the white linen, order the good meal, and disappear into serene aqua views without one ounce of guilt.
Because this softness?�It wasn’t handed to me.�I earned every bit of it.
Bali has been good for my spirit.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is step away from the noise…
At this age, I no longer vacation to impress people.�I vacation to hear myself think again.

Like this look? Comment “Summer” for the link.

#FlyGrannyBK #ProAging #Over60Style #BaliVacation #AgingWithStyle

Do you need a reset?

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One of the greatest Blessings of my life is being a mother and seeing my children flourish. Sometimes we wonder how we did as parents, but I’m happy to say that my boys give me my flowers of appreciation while I’m still here🙏🏽💐❤️

I pray this can be said of me from Proverbs 31:
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She looks well to the ways of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
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Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
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“Many women have done excellently,
but you surpass them all.”
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Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
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Give her of the fruit of her hands,
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Happy Mother’s Day All!💐Then and Now…Swipe left.
One of the greatest Blessings of my life is being a mother and seeing my children flourish. Sometimes we wonder how we did as parents, but I’m happy to say that my boys give me my flowers of appreciation while I’m still here🙏🏽💐❤️

I pray this can be said of me from Proverbs 31:
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She looks well to the ways of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
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Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
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“Many women have done excellently,
but you surpass them all.”
30
Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31
Give her of the fruit of her hands,
and let her works praise her in the gates.

And when you can’t physically, be there with them, there’s always AI to the rescue🤗😉

#mothersandsons#mothersday#thenandnow#boystomen

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Life moves fast, but some things never change… the love, the bond, and the way your children continue to cheer you on through every season of life.

Justin has always been one of my biggest supporters — from my early mom days to this chapter of traveling, creating, and living life fully. And now seeing 3 generations together? That’s the real blessing. 🙏🏽

Sometimes the greatest flex isn’t fame, money, or followers… it’s looking around and realizing your family still genuinely loves being together.

Three generations strong… and my heart is full.
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From me with big big hair, busy days, and raising my boy in the ‘80s… to watching him become an incredible father himself.

Life moves fast, but some things never change… the love, the bond, and the way your children continue to cheer you on through every season of life.

Justin has always been one of my biggest supporters — from my early mom days to this chapter of traveling, creating, and living life fully. And now seeing 3 generations together? That’s the real blessing. 🙏🏽

Sometimes the greatest flex isn’t fame, money, or followers… it’s looking around and realizing your family still genuinely loves being together.

Three generations strong… and my heart is full.
#TBT

#ThrowbackThursday #3Generations #BoyMom #FamilyLove FlyGrannyBK

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Bali has been on my heart for years… and I finally said YES. 🌴

So many of us keep pushing our dreams down the road—waiting for the “right time,” the perfect moment, or more certainty. But here’s the truth: that moment may never come.

My niece and I took a trip to Italy right before the pandemic changed everything. We could have easily said, “Let’s wait.” But we didn’t—and that trip became a memory we’ll treasure forever.

That experience taught me something I carry with me now:
✨ Don’t postpone joy.
✨ Don’t wait to live your life.
✨ And don’t measure your dreams against anyone else’s.

Travel looks different for everyone. What matters is that you honor what calls YOU.

If you’ve been thinking about taking that trip, making that move, or saying yes to something that excites you… consider this your sign.

Go. While you can. While you’re able. While your heart is still pulling you there. 💫

#DontPostponeJoy #TravelWhileYouCan #BucketListTrip #BaliMoments #LiveYourDreams

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Bali has been on my heart for years… and I finally said YES. 🌴

So many of us keep pushing our dreams down the road—waiting for the “right time,” the perfect moment, or more certainty. But here’s the truth: that moment may never come.

My niece and I took a trip to Italy right before the pandemic changed everything. We could have easily said, “Let’s wait.” But we didn’t—and that trip became a memory we’ll treasure forever.

That experience taught me something I carry with me now:
✨ Don’t postpone joy.
✨ Don’t wait to live your life.
✨ And don’t measure your dreams against anyone else’s.

Travel looks different for everyone. What matters is that you honor what calls YOU.

If you’ve been thinking about taking that trip, making that move, or saying yes to something that excites you… consider this your sign.

Go. While you can. While you’re able. While your heart is still pulling you there. 💫

#DontPostponeJoy #TravelWhileYouCan #BucketListTrip #BaliMoments #LiveYourDreams

Last few days here in Bali. Staying at the amazing @kappasensesubud
Swipe left to see more. Living in a dream for another day. Bali is everything I imagined and more…

We are in Ubud which is the cultural, artistic, and spiritual heart of Bali. Today we’re off to a tour of the region and I’m excited to check out the rice paddies, waterfalls, and temples. Keep checking in for more of Bali.

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Last few days here in Bali. Staying at the amazing @kappasensesubud
Swipe left to see more. Living in a dream for another day. Bali is everything I imagined and more…

We are in Ubud which is the cultural, artistic, and spiritual heart of Bali. Today we’re off to a tour of the region and I’m excited to check out the rice paddies, waterfalls, and temples. Keep checking in for more of Bali.

#baliadventures#ubud #bucketlistvacation#midlifetraveller

A monkey literally stole my eyeglasses right off my face!!
We were forewarned by everyone including staff, and a woman who had just witnessed phones and sunglasses getting stolen, and the monkeys running off into the trees, never to be seen again!
We were careful, or so we thought.
I held onto the rim of my glasses while walking , and we held our phones securely in front us.
I felt someone push me. It felt like a person, until I realized it was a monkey. Then we stopped to ask a quick question, dropped our guard and Mr. Monkey swooped down and grabbed my glasses before I even realized it! He was that quick. A local guide saved the day by throwing a banana at him, and he dropped my glasses.
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A monkey literally stole my eyeglasses right off my face!!
We were forewarned by everyone including staff, and a woman who had just witnessed phones and sunglasses getting stolen, and the monkeys running off into the trees, never to be seen again!
We were careful, or so we thought.
I held onto the rim of my glasses while walking , and we held our phones securely in front us.
I felt someone push me. It felt like a person, until I realized it was a monkey. Then we stopped to ask a quick question, dropped our guard and Mr. Monkey swooped down and grabbed my glasses before I even realized it! He was that quick. A local guide saved the day by throwing a banana at him, and he dropped my glasses.
I saw him up in that tree and thought they would be gone forever! Grateful for the guide. We didn’t see him in action crafty suckas!!😂🙈🐒

#BaliAdventures #monkeystory #travelmishaps #Grayhairdontcare

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It was worth the long flight… three legs-Phoenix to Seattle, Seattle to Taiwan, Taiwan to Bali. So if you are planning to go, you will lose a day going, and gain a day coming back. That’s why we decided to at least be here more than a week because it made more sense.
Anyway, here are some tidbits, and keep checking in for more. There’s a lot more to see, and we’ve just begun!

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Yes, Virginia, Bali is everything I have ever dreamed of! Lush.Tropical.Hot.

It was worth the long flight… three legs-Phoenix to Seattle, Seattle to Taiwan, Taiwan to Bali. So if you are planning to go, you will lose a day going, and gain a day coming back. That’s why we decided to at least be here more than a week because it made more sense.
Anyway, here are some tidbits, and keep checking in for more. There’s a lot more to see, and we’ve just begun!

#birthdayvibes, #bali, #balilife, #travelinspiration, #livelifefully,

Some birthdays get a day… I got two.

Left the U.S., landed in Bali, and somehow turned 69 twice thanks to that little thing called time zones—and honestly, I’m still celebrating.🎉

#thisis69 and it feels like a whole new lens on life. Slower, sweeter, more intentional. Grateful for every experience, every lesson, every beautiful moment I get to live out loud.

Here’s your reminder: don’t wait. Wear the outfit. Take the trip. Say yes to the life you keep dreaming about.

Because fabulous doesn’t expire… and neither should you.

#thisis69#birthdayvibes#bali#balilife

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Some birthdays get a day… I got two.

Left the U.S., landed in Bali, and somehow turned 69 twice thanks to that little thing called time zones—and honestly, I’m still celebrating.🎉

#thisis69 and it feels like a whole new lens on life. Slower, sweeter, more intentional. Grateful for every experience, every lesson, every beautiful moment I get to live out loud.

Here’s your reminder: don’t wait. Wear the outfit. Take the trip. Say yes to the life you keep dreaming about.

Because fabulous doesn’t expire… and neither should you.

#thisis69#birthdayvibes#bali#balilife

Still here enjoying Bali- but my hair…not so much, so I decided to get my hair braided at a local massage spa (Anggita spa Seminyak )that also braided hair lol. I didn’t quite know what to expect, but I was pleasantly surprised. As you can see in the video it’s a whole different process than it is in the states where the hair is already packaged. They unravel ribbon and turn it into Hair filaments. It was amazing anyway check out the video so you can see the process and let me know what you think below!
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