The Life of an Influencer

by | Aug 31, 2024

Hello, fabulous friends! I’m FlyGrannyBk, your go-to muse for aging with grace, style, and beauty. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be an influencer who loves flaunting silver locks and living life to the fullest. Let’s chat about the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

How It All Started

Believe it or not, my influencer adventure began as a simple IG page in Brooklyn, where I would post family pics and snippets from my everyday life. The pivotal moment? Ditching the dye. That single decision changed the trajectory of my life. In 2020, I embraced my natural gray hair and became a full-fledged influencer. By 2021, I had turned this passion into a business, started monetizing my content, and brands began reaching out to me for hair and skin care collaborations.

Celebrating Milestones and Motivation

Reaching 100k followers was like tasting a sweet slice of validation cake! It was a significant milestone that made all the hard work feel SO worth it and inspired me to keep inspiring you. My goal is simple yet profound—to inspire women to shine bright no matter their age. Our gray hair is our crown, and trust me, it sparkles beautifully when you wear it with confidence!

Facing Trolls and Tight Schedules

Now, let’s talk about some of the challenges. For every ray of sunshine, there’s a cloud or two, and yes, I’m talking about the trolls. No matter how positive you are, someone will always have something negative to say. But here’s the tea, my dear Silver Sisters—those negative Nellies will never outshine our inner radiance.

Traveling for shoots across the US is another blessing wrapped in a challenge. It’s exhilarating but can feel daunting when your schedule gets packed. The key? Finding balance and making sure to indulge in some self-care along the way.

Advice for Aspiring Influencers

For those of you dreaming of joining the influencer world, here’s my two cents wrapped in love and sprinkled with wisdom:

  • Stay True to Yourself: Authenticity is your best accessory. Be your fabulous self and stick to your values. This is what builds a loyal, engaged following.
  • Consistency is Crucial: Regular posting and engaging with your audience keeps the connection alive. Think of it as watering a beautiful garden—you nurture it consistently to see it bloom.
  • Hard Work Pays Off: Being an influencer isn’t just about taking cute photos. It’s dedication, perseverance, and sometimes a sprinkle of late nights editing content.
  • Learn from Challenges: Every hiccup is a lesson. Whether it’s dealing with negativity or managing a whirlwind schedule, these experiences only add more chapters to your story.
  • Use Your Platform for Good: Inspire, uplift, and share your knowledge. Remember, your influence can make a difference in someone’s life. That’s powerful stuff!

Insights from the Journey

Being an influencer has taught me that age is no barrier to living your dreams. It’s about celebrating who you are, right here and now. If you need more motivation to step into your power, join the Silver Sisters Crew here at FlyGrannyBk.com! Together, we’ll continue to break societal norms and redefine what it means to age with flair.

Remember, you’re never too old to set new goals or dream a new dream. Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

Stay connected with me on Instagram at @flygrannybk for daily doses of inspiration, style tips, and behind-the-scenes looks at my influencer life.

Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

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Before coffee: don’t talk to me, don’t look at me, don’t even think about me. ☕️ After coffee: suddenly I’m everyone’s favorite ray of sunshine. 🌞
I blame my mom for this love affair — I grew up waking up to the smell of her morning coffee, and now it’s basically in my DNA. 

Who else can’t function until that first cup hits?
#coffeelover
#over60andfabulous 
#flygrannybk
Sunday Church Vibes

I had this vintage @dianevonfurstenberg wrap dress in my closet for about 2 decades and decided to pull it out and throw it on today. Love the knit denim look.
Now I know why the wrap was all the rage in the 70s-just wrap and go. I think I’m gonna look for some others.

Did you rock the DVF wrap dresses back in the day???

God is good.
All.The.Time.

#VintageFashion 
#over60andfabulous 
#churchladystyle
#wrapdress
#vintagedress
#1970sstyle
#Vintage70s
#sundayservice
Six year old me, and me now.

Things I would tell my six year old self…

•You only need validation from yourself and God.

•Your thoughts are not always true (we sometimes adopt things as truth when they’re not)

•Trust your instincts, they’re rarely wrong-that goes for lovers, friends, and decisions.

Always put God first in your choices.

Be content in your current state while pursuing your dreams. Comparison is truly the thief of joy.

You are the only YOU there is. People can copy, but they’ll never be you, and you’ll never be them.

Pass this on to someone who needs to hear this-young and old.
Thanks for stopping by.

What would you add to this list??👇🏽

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#blackandfilipina
#vintage60s 
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Anyways…just stopping by to say hello

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We met in 2017. 
Married in 2022.
Both had previous failed marriages. 
Don’t give up.
Love is possible at any age.

#thisis68
#loveover50
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#bwwm
#Interraciallove
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#interracialdating 
#babyboomers
We met in 2017 and dated long distance for some years. We got married on this day in 2022.
Love is possible no matter your age. Just be open, broaden your horizons, and don’t give up. A lot of women get exasperated with the online scene, and give up. I get it. It’s work.
But there are as many great love stories as there are horror stories. Such is life. Don’t give up ! We’re here to inspire you!!

Happy Third Anniversary, Love!! I love doing life with you and thankful that God is the center of our lives!💕

We’re 68 and Still Fly✈️ 
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Summer Breeze and grandkids makes me feel fine…
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