The Life of an Influencer

by | Aug 31, 2024

Hello, fabulous friends! I’m FlyGrannyBk, your go-to muse for aging with grace, style, and beauty. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be an influencer who loves flaunting silver locks and living life to the fullest. Let’s chat about the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

How It All Started

Believe it or not, my influencer adventure began as a simple IG page in Brooklyn, where I would post family pics and snippets from my everyday life. The pivotal moment? Ditching the dye. That single decision changed the trajectory of my life. In 2020, I embraced my natural gray hair and became a full-fledged influencer. By 2021, I had turned this passion into a business, started monetizing my content, and brands began reaching out to me for hair and skin care collaborations.

Celebrating Milestones and Motivation

Reaching 100k followers was like tasting a sweet slice of validation cake! It was a significant milestone that made all the hard work feel SO worth it and inspired me to keep inspiring you. My goal is simple yet profound—to inspire women to shine bright no matter their age. Our gray hair is our crown, and trust me, it sparkles beautifully when you wear it with confidence!

Facing Trolls and Tight Schedules

Now, let’s talk about some of the challenges. For every ray of sunshine, there’s a cloud or two, and yes, I’m talking about the trolls. No matter how positive you are, someone will always have something negative to say. But here’s the tea, my dear Silver Sisters—those negative Nellies will never outshine our inner radiance.

Traveling for shoots across the US is another blessing wrapped in a challenge. It’s exhilarating but can feel daunting when your schedule gets packed. The key? Finding balance and making sure to indulge in some self-care along the way.

Advice for Aspiring Influencers

For those of you dreaming of joining the influencer world, here’s my two cents wrapped in love and sprinkled with wisdom:

  • Stay True to Yourself: Authenticity is your best accessory. Be your fabulous self and stick to your values. This is what builds a loyal, engaged following.
  • Consistency is Crucial: Regular posting and engaging with your audience keeps the connection alive. Think of it as watering a beautiful garden—you nurture it consistently to see it bloom.
  • Hard Work Pays Off: Being an influencer isn’t just about taking cute photos. It’s dedication, perseverance, and sometimes a sprinkle of late nights editing content.
  • Learn from Challenges: Every hiccup is a lesson. Whether it’s dealing with negativity or managing a whirlwind schedule, these experiences only add more chapters to your story.
  • Use Your Platform for Good: Inspire, uplift, and share your knowledge. Remember, your influence can make a difference in someone’s life. That’s powerful stuff!

Insights from the Journey

Being an influencer has taught me that age is no barrier to living your dreams. It’s about celebrating who you are, right here and now. If you need more motivation to step into your power, join the Silver Sisters Crew here at FlyGrannyBk.com! Together, we’ll continue to break societal norms and redefine what it means to age with flair.

Remember, you’re never too old to set new goals or dream a new dream. Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

Stay connected with me on Instagram at @flygrannybk for daily doses of inspiration, style tips, and behind-the-scenes looks at my influencer life.

Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

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At first, we laughed.
“Did you take out the trash?”�“I don’t have any cash!”
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Little miscommunications have a way of piling up. What starts as funny can slowly turn into frustration. Repeating yourself. Missing details. Feeling disconnected in your own home.
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Sunday Service
Psalms 19:1 The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork.

Psalm 14:1 The fool has said in his heart,“ There is no God.”

The majesty of God’s creation speaks for itself. 
 • Order implies intelligence.
* Law implies a law-giver.
* Design implies a designer.
You don’t walk into a cathedral and assume a tornado assembled it.
Earth rotates at roughly 1,000 miles per hour at the equator.
And yet… you don’t feel it.

Gravity is silent. Invisible. Relentless.
It holds:
* You to the ground
* The oceans in their basins
* The atmosphere wrapped around Earth
* The Moon in orbit
* The planets circling the Sun
* 
Mountains aren’t just pretty backdrops for Instagram.
They:
* Regulate climate patterns
* Drive rainfall distribution
* Anchor tectonic balance

Just some things to ponder if you think this earth was created by some Big Bang. I’m sorry but a big bang can’t even wash and put away the dishes.

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#SedonaArizona
#FaithAndNature
#RedRockBeauty
#BlessedBeyondMeasure
I Thrifted this neon green dress, and I can’t tell whether it’s vintage or not. The fabric feels like those slinky knits from the 1990s early 2000s. Either way I’m not gonna keep it. It does not flatter my figure. IYKYK IF. It makes me look shorter, so I covered it with a cardigan and some knee-high boots to make it work.
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Boots @charlesdavidshoes 
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Sunday Service.
A little late, but this is another one of my favorite verses. I’ve been at rock bottom a time or two in this ole life. We all have, haven’t we?
If not for God, and His word keeping me afloat during those times, I don’t know where I’d be. We can’t trust in or count on man, can we?
But God…🙏🏽

“But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.”
Philippians 4:19

Can I get an Amen? Have a blessed week and stay warm Fam.❤️

#blessednotstressed#faith#trustingod 

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