The Life of an Influencer

by | Aug 31, 2024

Hello, fabulous friends! I’m FlyGrannyBk, your go-to muse for aging with grace, style, and beauty. Today, I’m pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to be an influencer who loves flaunting silver locks and living life to the fullest. Let’s chat about the highs, the lows, and everything in between.

How It All Started

Believe it or not, my influencer adventure began as a simple IG page in Brooklyn, where I would post family pics and snippets from my everyday life. The pivotal moment? Ditching the dye. That single decision changed the trajectory of my life. In 2020, I embraced my natural gray hair and became a full-fledged influencer. By 2021, I had turned this passion into a business, started monetizing my content, and brands began reaching out to me for hair and skin care collaborations.

Celebrating Milestones and Motivation

Reaching 100k followers was like tasting a sweet slice of validation cake! It was a significant milestone that made all the hard work feel SO worth it and inspired me to keep inspiring you. My goal is simple yet profound—to inspire women to shine bright no matter their age. Our gray hair is our crown, and trust me, it sparkles beautifully when you wear it with confidence!

Facing Trolls and Tight Schedules

Now, let’s talk about some of the challenges. For every ray of sunshine, there’s a cloud or two, and yes, I’m talking about the trolls. No matter how positive you are, someone will always have something negative to say. But here’s the tea, my dear Silver Sisters—those negative Nellies will never outshine our inner radiance.

Traveling for shoots across the US is another blessing wrapped in a challenge. It’s exhilarating but can feel daunting when your schedule gets packed. The key? Finding balance and making sure to indulge in some self-care along the way.

Advice for Aspiring Influencers

For those of you dreaming of joining the influencer world, here’s my two cents wrapped in love and sprinkled with wisdom:

  • Stay True to Yourself: Authenticity is your best accessory. Be your fabulous self and stick to your values. This is what builds a loyal, engaged following.
  • Consistency is Crucial: Regular posting and engaging with your audience keeps the connection alive. Think of it as watering a beautiful garden—you nurture it consistently to see it bloom.
  • Hard Work Pays Off: Being an influencer isn’t just about taking cute photos. It’s dedication, perseverance, and sometimes a sprinkle of late nights editing content.
  • Learn from Challenges: Every hiccup is a lesson. Whether it’s dealing with negativity or managing a whirlwind schedule, these experiences only add more chapters to your story.
  • Use Your Platform for Good: Inspire, uplift, and share your knowledge. Remember, your influence can make a difference in someone’s life. That’s powerful stuff!

Insights from the Journey

Being an influencer has taught me that age is no barrier to living your dreams. It’s about celebrating who you are, right here and now. If you need more motivation to step into your power, join the Silver Sisters Crew here at FlyGrannyBk.com! Together, we’ll continue to break societal norms and redefine what it means to age with flair.

Remember, you’re never too old to set new goals or dream a new dream. Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

Stay connected with me on Instagram at @flygrannybk for daily doses of inspiration, style tips, and behind-the-scenes looks at my influencer life.

Keep shining, Silver Sisters!

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This is the last weekend of 2025! Wow that went fast!
Posting this to say I’m grateful for everything that 2025 brought, including you, my dear followers and friends- although I don’t see many of you like I did in the old IG days around 2020-so if you’re seeing me for the first time in a long time drop a Hello below!
I’m wishing you everything you wish for yourself in 2026, and above all, I wish you good health and blessings now and always!
Cheers!
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Merry Christmas from our house to yours! Thank you for stopping by.
Just a reminder that Christ Jesus is the reason for the Season, and gave us the greatest gift of all-eternal life.

“For unto us a Child is born,
Unto us a Son is given;
And the government will be upon His shoulder.
And His name will be called
Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”Isaiah 9:6

“And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son.”
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Brooklyn, early 1960s.
Four years old. Wide-eyed. Holding court on Santa’s lap like I had a list and opinions.

This was likely downtown on Fulton Street, at the old A&S — back when department stores felt magical, Santa felt real, and Brooklyn at Christmas had a hum you could feel in your bones. The giant Christmas tree near the elevators, and there were so many people shopping you could barely move! The kind of place where moms dressed you up, dads waited patiently, and the city felt smaller, safer, and full of promise.

I can almost smell the waffles in McCrory’s, hear the street noise outside, feel the excitement of being seen and remembered. A little girl in a big city, already soaking it all in. These are the moments that shape us — before life layers us up, before time speeds ahead.

Proof that nostalgia isn’t just memory… it’s feeling. And some of it never leaves you.

Brooklyn raised me. Christmas held me. And that little girl is still right here.
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I am owning the fact that my figure is a little Rubenesque these days as I have packed on a few pounds, but I’m owning my sexy curves, and I’ll work on my weight again…ahem…after the holidays!
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