Rocking the Silver Life

by | May 9, 2024 | 0 comments

Rocking the Silver Life

In a world obsessed with the illusion of eternal youth, there’s a vibrant wave of women who are flipping the script, flaunting their wisdom, and living their best lives with a dash of silver. My name is Adelina, and I am one of these women. My brand, FlyGrannyBk, is not just a persona; it’s a movement—a salute to the unapologetic beauty of aging and the rich tapestry of experiences that come with it. In case you are new around here, I want to take a moment to walk you through the things I value.

The Transition to Gray Hair: A Declaration of Authenticity

The choice to embrace your natural silver strands is nothing short of revolutionary. It’s like telling the world, “I am comfortable in my own skin, and I’m here to slay.” For many, this decision is a pivotal moment of self-love and empowerment.

I believe in owning every silver thread as a badge of honor and experience. Think of it as leveling up. It’s not just aging; it’s upgrading to a crown. And honey, it’s time to wear that crown like the queen you are! You can learn more about my transition by following me on the Gram @flygrannybk. 

Vibrant Living and Dating in Your Glorious Years

Who said adventure has an expiration date? Whether you’re a foodie, a fashionista, or just someone looking to soak in the joys of life, there’s a whole world waiting for you.

Foodie Adventures for the Silver Soul

The silver years are a perfect time to explore culinary wonders. With an appreciation for finer details and the patience to savor each moment, dining becomes more than just eating; it becomes an experience. Let’s be real: wine gets better with age, and so do we! It’s time to pair our seasoned selves with some exquisite flavors.

Fashion Forward After Fifty

Fashion and beauty over 50 is not about fading into the background; it’s about making bold statements. Style influencer, Tennille Murphy says, “The confidence that comes with age is a beautiful thing. More than ever, I am decisive and stand by my choices, I know what I like and don’t like, I am able to set healthy boundaries, I am overall happier and more positive AND I am comfortable in my own skin. That my darlings, is the gift of aging!”

There are no rules to fashion when you’ve lived enough to know what suits you best—it’s all about confidence, and silver ladies have that in spades. Check out some of my favorite shoes HERE. Seriously, they are a must have of this season!

Love and Dating: Age is Just a Number

The heart doesn’t grow old; it only grows wiser. Dating in your silver years can be an exciting exploration of compatibility, companionship, and shared experiences. I met my husband at 59 years old and I couldn’t be happier. There is something extra special about meeting the love of your life at a more mature age. You know your worth and your values and won’t compromise either of them. It becomes an amazing opportunity to see the world through a different lens. 

There is the joy of weaving your life with someone who reflects your deep understanding of life’s twists and turns. Having both navigated through storms and basked in sunlit days, you discover a profound connection that’s built on recognizing each other’s struggles and victories. The stories you’ve lived and the wisdom you’ve exchanged lay the foundation of a relationship that’s rich, profound, and utterly rewarding, turning every moment you share into an adventure. To learn more about my love story, check out THIS post on Instagram.

I always say that love is possible at any age. So, don’t give up! Keep believing and keep praying, but also be proactive and put yourself out there. There are so many ways to meet people, but none of them include sitting on the couch feeling sorry for yourself. You gotta put in the work!

A Beacon of Hope for Women Everywhere

Each wrinkle has its story, and gray hair is just the sparkle. Never shy away from being your most authentic self. This isn’t just about hair or fashion; it’s a mantra for life itself. It’s a call to women everywhere to own their stories, their wisdom, and their beauty, in every hue and shade.

By sharing these perspectives and voices, we’re not just talking about aging; we’re redefining it. Aging isn’t something to be feared or hidden away; it’s to be celebrated, with every silver strand waving like a flag of freedom and every laugh line painting the map of a life well-lived.

In the words of poet Maya Angelou, “We don’t just survive; we thrive… and we do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” The Silver Life is your canvas, and you, my dear, are the masterpiece.

Welcome to the Silver Life—the best is yet to come!

Ready to channel your inner radiance and join a community that celebrates every facet of the Silver Life?

Follow @FlyGrannyBK on Instagram for your daily dose of inspiration, empowerment, and authentic style. But why stop there? Check out my blog and join the community for exclusive stories, tips, and pearls of wisdom that will illuminate your path to living your most vibrant life. 

Together, we’re not just aging; we’re elevating. Join us now and be part of the movement that’s redefining age with grace, courage, and lots of sparkles. 

The best is indeed yet to come, and we want you to be a part of every glittering moment!

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I don’t play around about hydration—especially at higher altitude here in PV.
A hair analysis test reminded me to pay attention to what I’m drinking, so filtering my water through Epic became a non-negotiable. It removes up to 99.99% of the stuff I don’t want in my body.
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There must be something in the air. I have been purging my closet for a while. 
I can’t count how many bags of clothing and stuff we donated this year alone.
So when @dianebrittsmith posted about purging, it resonated with me because I’m purging too.
When I was selling vintage clothing, I used to go to estate sales and I would leave them with mixed feelings because although I would leave with all of the spoils and great vintage clothing, it made me very sad that we stood in line to get in and then rummaged over items that were an important part of peoples lives.Their cherished belongings. Their collectibles. Their lives. Reminder to self 
- you can’t take it with you.
Anywho-I went to the consignment shop and they took half of the items. What’s left I’ll have to give away. It must go!

Are you in a phase of getting rid of stuff?

#grayhairdontcare 
#silversister
#purging
Nothing fancy, just getting out while our kitchen is getting a facelift .
Lunch for us is probably dinner time for you folks on the east coast. 
We chose @wzasianbistro_pv 
our quick go to for a good lunch.
Note to self, this late lunch will probably be dinner too. #notcookingtonight 
#silversister
#lunchdate 
#enjoylife 
#maturecouple
#swirllife 
#interraciallove
Ponder this:

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” — George Eliot

“Finish each day and be done with it… Tomorrow is a new day.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

Every sunrise gives us another chance to grow, glow, and begin again. Remember, God’s mercies are new every morning! It’s another chance to begin again .
So if yesterday sucked, get some good sleep, and start over .
I’m embracing this season with grace, a little grit, and a whole lot of silver magic. Starting fresh never gets old — and neither do we. ✨

#MondayMotivation 
#silvermagic 
#SilverHairSiren 
#GrayHairDontCare #Over60AndFabulous
The wind was tossing everything 
today, but not me. 
Being rooted in the Word and standing 
on Christ the Solid Rock, you don’t get blown off course. 
In life, Storms can swirl — but I
stay planted on a firm foundation.

“On Christ the Solid Rock I Stand, all other ground is sinking sand”

Can I get an Amen??

#flygrannybk 
#womanoffaith
#sundayservice
#inspiration
I wanted to dispel all the negativity around menopause. I mean, the challenges are real, but It sounds so scary, and I’m glad that we have the information that our mothers didn’t have, and we can take action. So to my younger sisters, who are about to enter that phase, never fear; you’ve  made it this far!!
I’m not negating the hot flashes, the emotional mood swings, or the changes that many experience. Everything feels different, and everyone is different. For example, many women have terrible hot flashes. Me? I never had them, but I did have emotional mood swings, and that was very real. You might have a phase of losing your libido. You might have a phase of heightened libido. It’s all a crapshoot. The good news is today we have options. The availability of bioidentical hormones and other holistic treatments are very beneficial blessings that our parents didn’t have access to.
I’m not saying it’s a cakewalk, but you have to be proactive. I had terrible gynecologists that just did not help me for about 10 years until I found some good ones. If you’re not happy with your gynecologist, no matter how long you’ve been going to them, advocate for yourself and get a new one. 
Now that I’m on the other side, and postmenopausal, I can look back and say these things. It’s just one of the inevitable things. A change of life, as our parents used to say, so take life by the horns and keep it moving.

Oh, I forgot to add - you can wear white without fear!

I am not a doctor or expert so of course check with your physician before using them . This is my personal experience and here are a few supplements that helped me during Peri and Menopause:

Estrotone
Wild Yam Cream
Progesterone Cream

Comment PAUSE below and I’ll send direct links to these supplements.

What stage are you in?

#menopausal 
#postmenopausal 
#positiveoutlook 
#over60
#grownandsexy

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