Learning to Be Content in the Chaos

by | Jul 29, 2024 | 0 comments

In a world that seems to be spinning faster than we can keep up with, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Yet, amidst the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, we have the power to find peace and happiness right where we are. It’s all about learning to be content in the chaos.

The Quest for Contentment

Today’s world constantly bombards us with messages telling us to do more, be more, and achieve more. It’s easy to get caught up in the chaos, forgetting the simple joys that make life so beautiful. But when we pause to appreciate what we have, we discover a profound sense of contentment.

Why Contentment Matters

Contentment isn’t about settling for less; it’s about recognizing and appreciating the abundance that already exists in our lives.

When we learn to be content, we:

Reduce Stress

By focusing on what we have instead of what we lack, we lower our stress levels and improve our overall well-being. Life is beautiful, and when we appreciate this fact, our stress melts away, revealing a more serene existence.

Enhance Relationships

Contentment helps us build stronger, more meaningful relationships. When we’re not constantly striving for external validation, we can truly connect with others on a deeper level.

Boost Creativity

With a clear and peaceful mind, we’re free to explore our passions and express our creativity in new and exciting ways. Contentment opens the door to creative exploration and innovation.

My Journey to Contentment

I’ve had my share of ups and downs, like everyone else. But one thing I’ve learned is that true happiness comes from above. It’s not about material things or the number of likes on a post—it’s about finding joy in the little moments and being grateful for the here and now.

One of my favorite scriptures is Jeremiah 29:11, which says, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” How cool is that? The God who made the universe knows MY name and has plans to prosper ME?! Any way you slice it, that means I am too blessed to be stressed.

Practical Tips for Cultivating Contentment

     

      1. Practice Gratitude: Take a few minutes each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for. This helps shift your focus from what’s lacking to what’s already present in your life.

      1. Let Go of Comparisons: Comparison is truly the thief of joy. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your own journey and progress. Celebrate your wins and learn from your mistakes.

      1. Find Joy in Simple Things: Happiness doesn’t have to be grand or expensive; it can be found in simple moments like sipping a cup of coffee or spending time with loved ones.

      1. Live Mindfully: Being present in the moment allows you to fully experience and appreciate life. Slow down and notice the beauty around you.

      1. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: The people we surround ourselves with play a big role in our overall happiness. Choose to spend time with those who uplift and support you.

    Embracing Contentment for a Happier Life

    When we let go of chasing external sources of happiness and instead focus on cultivating contentment within ourselves, we open up a world of possibilities. We become more resilient, creative, and fulfilled individuals.

    Aging and Perspective

    One of the significant perks of aging is the ability to keep all of life’s ups and downs in perspective. I believe the best is yet to come, so I try hard to roll with the punches and never let life keep me down for too long. Life is beautiful, and each day is a gift. To find out more about my thoughts on contentment, check out my post on Instagram.

    Join the Conversation

    Now, I want to hear from YOU! How do you find contentment in our chaotic times? What practices help you stay grounded and grateful? Share your thoughts in the comments below or on my Instagram post. Let’s support each other on this beautiful journey to inner peace.

    Remember, you are too blessed to be stressed. Take a moment today to appreciate the beauty around you and the blessings in your life. Jeremiah 29:11 reminds us that there is a divine plan for each of us, filled with hope and a bright future.

    Stay blessed!

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23 “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
24  and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.

It doesn’t matter how good we think we are, fact is we are all fallen beings. 
Just think about our cute little toddlers, does anyone teach them to tell a fib? It’s innate. I’m thankful that we have an advocate and  His name is Jesus.

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I might look confident in this photo, but trust me—I haven’t always felt this way. 😌
I’ve always had a sharp eye for style (hello, former designer life 👗), but looking put-together was often my shield. People would compliment the outfit and never see the shy girl hiding behind it. It’s easy to hide in plain sight when everyone’s distracted by the clothes.
Growing up as the only girl with four older brothers, I got used to staying quiet. My oldest brother once told me my opinion didn’t matter “because I was just a girl.” Those words stuck deeper than I realized, keeping me in the shadows, comfortable behind the scenes, friendly but never front and center.
Then, in my 30s, everything flipped. He started bragging about my career, putting me on a pedestal. One day I finally spoke up—confronted the old hurt—and let it go. Turns out he didn’t even know how much it affected me. I’ve forgiven him completely. But man, it taught me: words matter. To your kids, your friends, your partner—they land heavier than we think. 💔➡️❤️
Fast forward to today: I’m out here on social media, gray hair and all, no more hiding. The moment I stopped apologizing for myself, the world started reflecting that acceptance back. Sure, I still get the occasional negative comment, but the love far outweighs it. I’m content, confident, and fully embracing my Big Age. 🌟
If you’ve ever felt like you’re hiding behind a polished exterior, or letting old words hold you back—know this: You don’t have to stay there. Accept yourself unapologetically, step into your truth, and watch how boldly the right people show up.
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