Gray Hair Transition Update

by | Nov 27, 2020 | 0 comments

How Choosing Gray Hair Changes Everything.

I am about 17 months into my transition in these photos. The first photo was taken in March in a photoshoot I had with Susie Lang @women.60. plus, and the one below was taken on my stoop in Brooklyn. Both photos were taken on the cusp of the pandemic and nobody knew exactly what was ahead, and the fear in the air was palpable. Susie and I completed our shoot, and then scurried home.

For months afterwards, most of my shoots were taken on my stoop, or a few blocks away from my home. Nobody was venturing too far from home in the early days of the virus. They were frightening days indeed. Especially in the cities. Especially New York City.

I was in full grombre stage here. Half gray, half colored hair creating an ombre effect, thus the term grombre was made famous in the community coined by the inspirational Martha Truslow Smith @grombre

I post a lot of photos with straight hair because the gray hair looks more pronounced and I can see exactly where I am. At this point in the journey, I am committed and comfortable with my gray hair. The two or three colors no longer bother me, and I am starting to get compliments from passersby. What has choosing to go gray changed in my life?? For one thing, as a creative New Yorker, I wore black and gray most of my life. Now, I am exploring brighter bolder colors more often, and feeling more comfortable in them. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

In chatting with Susie Lang before our photoshoot, she mentioned feeling invisible after a certain age, and wanting to take charge by doing something different. That birthed her amazing Instagram page featuring her stunning photos of women over sixty in all walks of life ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

Same here. Since going gray I am exploring new things and approaching life with boldness. A literal coming of age. 😀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

 We are not fading into the background the way previous generations did, we are taking charge, and looking fabulous while doing it!

What are you doing differently since becoming a silver sister? ⠀⠀⠀⠀

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I had this vintage @dianevonfurstenberg wrap dress in my closet for about 2 decades and decided to pull it out and throw it on today. Love the knit denim look.
Now I know why the wrap was all the rage in the 70s-just wrap and go. I think I’m gonna look for some others.

Did you rock the DVF wrap dresses back in the day???

God is good.
All.The.Time.

#VintageFashion 
#over60andfabulous 
#churchladystyle
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Six year old me, and me now.

Things I would tell my six year old self…

•You only need validation from yourself and God.

•Your thoughts are not always true (we sometimes adopt things as truth when they’re not)

•Trust your instincts, they’re rarely wrong-that goes for lovers, friends, and decisions.

Always put God first in your choices.

Be content in your current state while pursuing your dreams. Comparison is truly the thief of joy.

You are the only YOU there is. People can copy, but they’ll never be you, and you’ll never be them.

Pass this on to someone who needs to hear this-young and old.
Thanks for stopping by.

What would you add to this list??👇🏽

#tbt
#thenandnow
#thisis68
#wisdomoftheages 
#blackandfilipina
#vintage60s 
#throwback
#myyoungerself 
#brooklyngirl
In between seasons and enjoying it. It’s still hot outchea in AZ, how about where you are?
Anyways…just stopping by to say hello

#grayhairdontcare #flygrannybk #thisis68
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( I posted this earlier and it literally disappeared!! Whassup IG??🤷🏽‍♀️)
We met in 2017. 
Married in 2022.
Both had previous failed marriages. 
Don’t give up.
Love is possible at any age.

#thisis68
#loveover50
#loveover60
#bwwm
#Interraciallove
#couplegoals
#interracialdating 
#babyboomers
We met in 2017 and dated long distance for some years. We got married on this day in 2022.
Love is possible no matter your age. Just be open, broaden your horizons, and don’t give up. A lot of women get exasperated with the online scene, and give up. I get it. It’s work.
But there are as many great love stories as there are horror stories. Such is life. Don’t give up ! We’re here to inspire you!!

Happy Third Anniversary, Love!! I love doing life with you and thankful that God is the center of our lives!💕

We’re 68 and Still Fly✈️ 
🙏🏽😃

#maturecouple
#babyboomers
#mixedracecouple 
#bwwm 
#flygrannybk
#anniversary
#thisis68
Summer Breeze and grandkids makes me feel fine…
#family 
#grandchildren 
#grandma 
#summertime
#flygrannybk ##arizonalife

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