Gray Hair Transition Update

by | Nov 27, 2020 | 0 comments

How Choosing Gray Hair Changes Everything.

I am about 17 months into my transition in these photos. The first photo was taken in March in a photoshoot I had with Susie Lang @women.60. plus, and the one below was taken on my stoop in Brooklyn. Both photos were taken on the cusp of the pandemic and nobody knew exactly what was ahead, and the fear in the air was palpable. Susie and I completed our shoot, and then scurried home.

For months afterwards, most of my shoots were taken on my stoop, or a few blocks away from my home. Nobody was venturing too far from home in the early days of the virus. They were frightening days indeed. Especially in the cities. Especially New York City.

I was in full grombre stage here. Half gray, half colored hair creating an ombre effect, thus the term grombre was made famous in the community coined by the inspirational Martha Truslow Smith @grombre

I post a lot of photos with straight hair because the gray hair looks more pronounced and I can see exactly where I am. At this point in the journey, I am committed and comfortable with my gray hair. The two or three colors no longer bother me, and I am starting to get compliments from passersby. What has choosing to go gray changed in my life?? For one thing, as a creative New Yorker, I wore black and gray most of my life. Now, I am exploring brighter bolder colors more often, and feeling more comfortable in them. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

In chatting with Susie Lang before our photoshoot, she mentioned feeling invisible after a certain age, and wanting to take charge by doing something different. That birthed her amazing Instagram page featuring her stunning photos of women over sixty in all walks of life ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

Same here. Since going gray I am exploring new things and approaching life with boldness. A literal coming of age. 😀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

 We are not fading into the background the way previous generations did, we are taking charge, and looking fabulous while doing it!

What are you doing differently since becoming a silver sister? ⠀⠀⠀⠀

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Sunday Service.

Romans 3:23-24
23 “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
24  and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.

It doesn’t matter how good we think we are, fact is we are all fallen beings. 
Just think about our cute little toddlers, does anyone teach them to tell a fib? It’s innate. I’m thankful that we have an advocate and  His name is Jesus.

As always, reminding myself as I remind y’all🙏🏽❤️

Have a blessed and wonderful week.
 
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Boots @farylrobin 
Bag vintage Gucci

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They say love belongs to the young… but some of the best love stories begin when you finally know who you are. ❤️

Over 50 isn’t the ending — it’s the chapter where love feels calmer, deeper, and real.If you’re still hoping, still believing, still open… your story isn’t late. It’s just getting started.

✨ Love is always possible.

#LoveAfter50 #BoomerLove #SecondChanceRomance #NeverTooLateForLove #AgingWithHope

Say Yes if you’re still hopeful.
Say No if you’re just tired and have given up!
Happy Valentines Day! 
Happy Galentine’s Day! Sending Big Love to all!!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
#wisdomwednesday 
I might look confident in this photo, but trust me—I haven’t always felt this way. 😌
I’ve always had a sharp eye for style (hello, former designer life 👗), but looking put-together was often my shield. People would compliment the outfit and never see the shy girl hiding behind it. It’s easy to hide in plain sight when everyone’s distracted by the clothes.
Growing up as the only girl with four older brothers, I got used to staying quiet. My oldest brother once told me my opinion didn’t matter “because I was just a girl.” Those words stuck deeper than I realized, keeping me in the shadows, comfortable behind the scenes, friendly but never front and center.
Then, in my 30s, everything flipped. He started bragging about my career, putting me on a pedestal. One day I finally spoke up—confronted the old hurt—and let it go. Turns out he didn’t even know how much it affected me. I’ve forgiven him completely. But man, it taught me: words matter. To your kids, your friends, your partner—they land heavier than we think. 💔➡️❤️
Fast forward to today: I’m out here on social media, gray hair and all, no more hiding. The moment I stopped apologizing for myself, the world started reflecting that acceptance back. Sure, I still get the occasional negative comment, but the love far outweighs it. I’m content, confident, and fully embracing my Big Age. 🌟
If you’ve ever felt like you’re hiding behind a polished exterior, or letting old words hold you back—know this: You don’t have to stay there. Accept yourself unapologetically, step into your truth, and watch how boldly the right people show up.
Who’s with me? Drop a ❤️ if this hits home, or share your own “I used to hide but now...” moment below. Let’s lift each other up. ✨
#GrayHairDontCare #SelfAcceptance #WordsMatter#styleover60

Are you stepping into your big age confidently?
Sunday Service.
Romans 8:38-39
“For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers,  neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.“

I don’t have anything to add to this Word.

Have a Blessed week!

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