Gray Hair Transition Update

by | Nov 27, 2020 | 0 comments

How Choosing Gray Hair Changes Everything.

I am about 17 months into my transition in these photos. The first photo was taken in March in a photoshoot I had with Susie Lang @women.60. plus, and the one below was taken on my stoop in Brooklyn. Both photos were taken on the cusp of the pandemic and nobody knew exactly what was ahead, and the fear in the air was palpable. Susie and I completed our shoot, and then scurried home.

For months afterwards, most of my shoots were taken on my stoop, or a few blocks away from my home. Nobody was venturing too far from home in the early days of the virus. They were frightening days indeed. Especially in the cities. Especially New York City.

I was in full grombre stage here. Half gray, half colored hair creating an ombre effect, thus the term grombre was made famous in the community coined by the inspirational Martha Truslow Smith @grombre

I post a lot of photos with straight hair because the gray hair looks more pronounced and I can see exactly where I am. At this point in the journey, I am committed and comfortable with my gray hair. The two or three colors no longer bother me, and I am starting to get compliments from passersby. What has choosing to go gray changed in my life?? For one thing, as a creative New Yorker, I wore black and gray most of my life. Now, I am exploring brighter bolder colors more often, and feeling more comfortable in them. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

In chatting with Susie Lang before our photoshoot, she mentioned feeling invisible after a certain age, and wanting to take charge by doing something different. That birthed her amazing Instagram page featuring her stunning photos of women over sixty in all walks of life ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

Same here. Since going gray I am exploring new things and approaching life with boldness. A literal coming of age. 😀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

 We are not fading into the background the way previous generations did, we are taking charge, and looking fabulous while doing it!

What are you doing differently since becoming a silver sister? ⠀⠀⠀⠀

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It looks like doing whatever the heck you want!!
Animal prints are all the rage…AGAIN. Truth is, any fashionista knows it’s always on trend!

Animal print sheer blouse and scarf from @tjmaxx 

Who wore it better??😂

PS- Old folks have more fun!!!

#fallfashion 
#animalprint 
#leopardprint 
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#styleinspo 
#over60
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#maturecouple
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From the mouths of babes…
My Cheerleader, my Gray Hair Advocate, My biggest inspiration in 
life @dad_hat718. When I lose my social media Mojo-who you gonna call?
This video is from a few months ago when family was visiting.
He helped me redefine my Why.
I wish everyone was so blesse , and please share with other Fly mature social media folks to remind them why they do this.
#grayhairdontcare 
#sundayinspiration
#Mothersandsons
#boymom
#yourwhy 
#brooklynnatives
 #family
I just got tired of putting eyeliner on every single day again because the permanent liner that I had done a few years ago was starting to fade. So it was time to refresh them, and I have been searching for a while and didn’t feel like driving two hours down to the Phoenix area, or wait until I went back to NYC, so I found Natural Beauty By Kelly who does permanent make up in the area. Now it’s just a half hour drive instead. 
Now I can truly say, “I woke up like this!!!”
@natural_beauty_by_kelly_ 

How do you feel about permanent makeup?

 #eyeliner #permanentliner #arizonamakeupartist #permanentmakeup #beautyatanyage #sexyat60 #maturewoman #grayhair #permanentmakeup #explorepage
Now this is how you step up your sneaker game. 👠👟
These Sneex high-heeled kicks? Baby, they go with everything. @sneex 
From brunch fits to date-night looks—I’ve been styling them every which way, and they never miss.
Finally, a heel that treats your feet right.
Comment “Shoes” below Or
Click the link in my bio to Shop My links and where to snag a pair!

#Sneex
#styleover60
#over60andfabulous
#aginglikefinewine
#fallfashionideas
Some fall inspo…
Haven’t done one of these in a while, but thanks to @vinniecedufresne I was inspired to get back to it now that the weather is changing. We still get some spotty warm weather here in AZ so layering is key.
This is actually a haul from my own closet with a few new pieces and updating with a few new accessories.
You can find them in my Amazon Shop. 
Which look is your favorite? Let me know.
Text the word FALL below and I’ll send you a direct link to my shop.

#styleover60
#over60and fabulous
#olderandbolder 
#fallstyleinspo 
#fallfashion
Curly in the summer, straight in the winter…I like change and the versatility of switching back and forth. So I’ll be going back to straight for the cooler weather in a few days. I’ll see how it goes and how long it lasts when I go to the gym,but for now I’m welcoming the change🍁🍁Plus it’s hard to wear hats with this puffy hair!!😂

Do you switch it up with the changing of the seasons?
#grayhairdontcare
#silverfox
#over60
#grayhairstyles 
#silverhair
Last year around this time…
Sedona never gets old — those red rocks hit different every single time! 🌄 Last year’s Pink Jeep adventure was all thrills, dust, and wind-blown gray hair giving main character energy. If you know, you know… Sedona just does something to your soul. 

#SedonaVibes #PinkJeepTours #GrayHairDontCare #FlyGrannyAdventures #SilverSisterOnTheMove #RedRockMagic #TravelOver50 #AgelessAdventures

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