Gray Hair Transition Update

by | Nov 27, 2020 | 0 comments

How Choosing Gray Hair Changes Everything.

I am about 17 months into my transition in these photos. The first photo was taken in March in a photoshoot I had with Susie Lang @women.60. plus, and the one below was taken on my stoop in Brooklyn. Both photos were taken on the cusp of the pandemic and nobody knew exactly what was ahead, and the fear in the air was palpable. Susie and I completed our shoot, and then scurried home.

For months afterwards, most of my shoots were taken on my stoop, or a few blocks away from my home. Nobody was venturing too far from home in the early days of the virus. They were frightening days indeed. Especially in the cities. Especially New York City.

I was in full grombre stage here. Half gray, half colored hair creating an ombre effect, thus the term grombre was made famous in the community coined by the inspirational Martha Truslow Smith @grombre

I post a lot of photos with straight hair because the gray hair looks more pronounced and I can see exactly where I am. At this point in the journey, I am committed and comfortable with my gray hair. The two or three colors no longer bother me, and I am starting to get compliments from passersby. What has choosing to go gray changed in my life?? For one thing, as a creative New Yorker, I wore black and gray most of my life. Now, I am exploring brighter bolder colors more often, and feeling more comfortable in them. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

In chatting with Susie Lang before our photoshoot, she mentioned feeling invisible after a certain age, and wanting to take charge by doing something different. That birthed her amazing Instagram page featuring her stunning photos of women over sixty in all walks of life ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

Same here. Since going gray I am exploring new things and approaching life with boldness. A literal coming of age. 😀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

 We are not fading into the background the way previous generations did, we are taking charge, and looking fabulous while doing it!

What are you doing differently since becoming a silver sister? ⠀⠀⠀⠀

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In case you need some ideas on what to pack for your upcoming tropical vacation, look no further. 🌴☀️

#thisis69 and I still wear shorts and tube tops. At this age, I wear whatever I want and whatever I feel comfortable in. Confidence has no age limit, and neither does personal style.

For my birthday, I wore the flowy 2-piece print set, and because it was so hot I kept my style cool, comfy, and effortless. This silver hair journey has taught me that age-positive style is all about dressing for joy, freedom, and feeling good in your own skin.

Fashion over 60, over 65, and yes — over 69 — can still be bold, fun, stylish, and youthful. Don’t let anyone tell you there’s an expiration date on confidence, crop tops, or tropical vacation outfits. Wear the shorts. Wear the bright prints. Wear what makes you feel alive. ✨

What I packed:
3 tube tops
2 woven tops
3 pr shorts
3 Sundresses
3 pr wide leg pants
2 Caftans 
1 pr sneakers
1 black sandal
1pr fisherman sandals
1 pr flip flops
1 hoodie
1 white sweater

Comment “Ideas” and I’ll send a link to similar items in my Amazon shop.

Printed 2 pc set from @tjmaxx 

Reversible wrap skirt from @darngoodyarn 

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Sunday Service.
God’s handiwork was evident in Bali, and it’s all around us everywhere if we just take a moment to look up wherever we are.

I’m thankful for all blessings, and for being able to travel and see different places. What are you thankful for?
Share this with someone who needs a reminder.

#beautifulearth #bali#godsgoodness#travelbug
When you’re younger, you don’t usually worry about things like ingrown toenails. But as you get older you’re walking around fine, and then BAM, they start hurting. And somehow, when your feet hurt, your whole body hurts. 
Sure, when you go to get a regular pedicure, they can address it temporarily, but they always come back. But now it was affecting everything. My toes were hurting even while wearing sneakers, and so I had to take matters into my own hands or my own feet I should say- as it were.
The procedure was pretty painless and the only thing I felt was the pinch of the needles on either side of my big toe to numb them. It was over before I knew it. The experience was worse in my mind than IRL.
So what was the procedure you ask? The Dr. removed the ingrown edge of the nail and, destroyed the nail root so it won’t grow back. I’m OK with that.

We older folks are doing OK out here in these IG streets, but sometimes getting older sucks!!Not gonna lie😲🤣
But we keep it moving, and we Stay Fly!!!

If you need to get it done, just go get it done!
Some places stay with you long after the suitcase is unpacked.
The @omtaraspa at Kappa Senses Ubud was one of those places for me — hidden among lush greenery, soft rain, flowing water, warm oils, quiet rituals, and the kind of stillness that makes the rest of the world go silent for a little while.
I’m already back home in Arizona, back to real life, emails, laundry and deadlines… but this experience deserved its moment on the timeline because true peace is becoming a luxury these days. Bali slowed me down in the most beautiful way.
And honestly? A massage in the middle of the jungle while listening to nature do its thing should be prescribed at least twice a year. 

@clarinsofficial 
@kappasensesubud 

#BaliRetreat #UbudBali #LuxuryWellness #PositiveAging #FlyGrannyBk
There’s something about getting older that teaches you the difference between luxury and peace. One costs money. The other costs years.
Years of lessons.�Years of heartbreak.�Years of overextending, overthinking, overgiving.
So yes… these days I’ll gladly sit in beautiful places, wear the white linen, order the good meal, and disappear into serene aqua views without one ounce of guilt.
Because this softness?�It wasn’t handed to me.�I earned every bit of it.
Bali has been good for my spirit.

Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is step away from the noise…
At this age, I no longer vacation to impress people.�I vacation to hear myself think again. 

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#FlyGrannyBK #ProAging #Over60Style #BaliVacation #AgingWithStyle

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