Gray Hair Transition Update

by | Nov 27, 2020 | 0 comments

How Choosing Gray Hair Changes Everything.

I am about 17 months into my transition in these photos. The first photo was taken in March in a photoshoot I had with Susie Lang @women.60. plus, and the one below was taken on my stoop in Brooklyn. Both photos were taken on the cusp of the pandemic and nobody knew exactly what was ahead, and the fear in the air was palpable. Susie and I completed our shoot, and then scurried home.

For months afterwards, most of my shoots were taken on my stoop, or a few blocks away from my home. Nobody was venturing too far from home in the early days of the virus. They were frightening days indeed. Especially in the cities. Especially New York City.

I was in full grombre stage here. Half gray, half colored hair creating an ombre effect, thus the term grombre was made famous in the community coined by the inspirational Martha Truslow Smith @grombre

I post a lot of photos with straight hair because the gray hair looks more pronounced and I can see exactly where I am. At this point in the journey, I am committed and comfortable with my gray hair. The two or three colors no longer bother me, and I am starting to get compliments from passersby. What has choosing to go gray changed in my life?? For one thing, as a creative New Yorker, I wore black and gray most of my life. Now, I am exploring brighter bolder colors more often, and feeling more comfortable in them. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

In chatting with Susie Lang before our photoshoot, she mentioned feeling invisible after a certain age, and wanting to take charge by doing something different. That birthed her amazing Instagram page featuring her stunning photos of women over sixty in all walks of life ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 

Same here. Since going gray I am exploring new things and approaching life with boldness. A literal coming of age. 😀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

 We are not fading into the background the way previous generations did, we are taking charge, and looking fabulous while doing it!

What are you doing differently since becoming a silver sister? ⠀⠀⠀⠀

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hey y’all, we found love at 60 this is proof that love is possible at any age!
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Fall is here. 
Was not a big fan of barrel pants because I’m on the shorter side, and I thought I might look a little squatty- but I’m loving these pants and sweater by @scoop from @walmart believe it or not.

Similar silhouettes were popular in the 80s and 90s.

Are you rocking the trendy barrel pants?
Trying it with my animal print belt, and a belt bag that happens to match perfectly.
Which do you like better???

#fallfashion#over60style #walmartshopping #grayhairdontcare
I usually play this song in the morning to ground me in faith. It’s inevitable that there will be storms in life, so we must accept the rain along with the sunshine.
I am just feeling blessed and grateful. And glad to have my little buddy Rocky enjoying a moment with me this morning.

Have a blessed day, everyone!

Philippians 4:11-13 is in my spirit today:
“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

#faithoverfear#philippians413 #blessed#minischnauzer #dogsofinstagram
Yes, yes…supplement, meds, aches and pains- it all comes with the territory being over 65.
But we’ll take it and keep pushing!
We ain’t goin out like that!!!!
We’re goin out like this!!😘

#thisis69#grayhairdontcare #over60andfabulous #silvercouple #babyboomers
With fall looming, thought I’d switch it up to straight hair. It’s been a while.
We all need a change every now and then, plus hubby gets a different woman!!😂
I like options!!!
#grayhairdontcare #flygrannybk#grayhairstyle #naturalgrayhair
#thisis69
Mother Satori is 108 years old? Come on now!!! And Sophoni Laurent ( baddiesofia01) is supposedly 78 and out here looking looking real smooth! 

Well…they’re not real.

And let me tell you—they almost had me fooled too! The crazy thing is I can’t beliieve how many folks are duped and I can tell by their comments.

These beautiful AI-generated seniors may be entertaining and inspirational, but they are digital creations—not actual women living these fabulous lives. 
So before you ladies start comparing your face, body, wardrobe or aging process to theirs—look again.
AI is getting very good, and any one of us can be fooled. Enjoy the fantasy, but know what you’re looking at.

Meanwhile, I’m 69, still fine, gray hair and all—and as The Originals sang for all my old-school baby boomers: “Baby, I’m for real.”

Let me know in the comments below if you thought these were real people👇🏽
#FlyGrannyBK #notai #FYP#viralreels
Quick ride to Jerome, Arizona just over an hour from where we live here in Prescott Valley. It’s a cute little copper mining town,there’s all kinds of historic stores and relics and places that have copper jewelry, which I’ve been into lately.
I heard the population is 400😲
I heard that it is a haunted little ghost town, and they actually have haunted house tours. 
The views are spectacular.
It would be nice to spend a weekend here before it gets too cold!!

@jerome_arizona #arizonaskies#daytripping #jeromearizona

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